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NMT,
I’m sure you have. I happened to see it on a man’s profile, that’s what made me laugh and write the post. I wasn’t conducting a gender study! 🙄🙃😉
Real ABF’er,
Thank you, I always appreciate your input 😘
No. It’s not a real website. I highly doubt people in that community (not saying “them” here, just don’t want to plug an actual site) would want an anr or abf version of their site. If that community did embrace it, then Christian seeking Christian wouldn’t really be a discussion on this forum.
If yous seen a profile with Muslim seeks Muslim would you have created a post and would you all have laughed about it.
Perhaps. If I had spent a significant portion of my life as a devout Muslim, knew that culture intimately, and then found myself on a fetish site reading “Muslim seeking Muslim,” I might have found the juxtaposition equally amusing.
But I didn’t. I spent a significant portion of my life deeply immersed in Christianity, so THAT is the lens through which I wrote the post.
Not every observation about Christianity requires a corresponding observation about every other religion in order to be valid. And finding irony in something isn’t the same thing as mocking someone for believing it.
I actually thought that distinction was fairly clear.
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