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It would be much more interesting to ask a question. How does the craving for anr align with being a christian 8n your life?
May be they would ask you : why do you think that cant be? And then talk about predudices from both sides. Get to know each other, people! Make love, not war
It can take atheists a while to figure out just how tribalized they’ve become, and even longer to tie that back to the tribalistic behavior they think they’ve elevated themselves above, so as to gently mock it. Ironically, it is the atheist who aught to know better than to behave this way, but welcome to Earth. If you want an Other-fearing, close-minded, judgemental persona to have a 1-sided chat with, look no further than your local raving atheist.
Culture is an intelligence test. Imagine climbing the first rung of a ladder, and thinking you’d reached the top of it. That’s an atheist in a nutshell, looking down upon those who don’t have so much as a hand on the first rung and taking such glee in their lofty position of intellectual superiority.
It’s off-putting, really.
TJR,
Oh wow, I had no idea! Now I’m actually curious to read it. I knew there were references to breasts and nursing in the Bible, but I had no idea anyone had put together an entire biblical argument for ANR. You learn something new every day around here.
Rocco,
Thank you! And “recovering Roman Catholic” made me laugh. 😂 I’m fascinated by religion too, especially how much our beliefs can change once we actually start questioning what we were taught!
Rumina,
I do understand what you’re saying, and I actually think “How does ANR fit with your Christianity?” would be an interesting conversation. I’d be genuinely curious to hear the answers.
But, I don’t think my post was unkind.
Christianity isn’t something I only know from the outside. It shaped a HUGE part of my lifE! So when I laugh at some of the contradictions, it comes from knowing that world VERY, VERY well!
I never said Christians shouldn’t be here, shouldn’t enjoy ANR or shouldn’t want another Christian. I just find the juxtaposition funny. You’ve wandered into this wonderfully unconventional little corner of human sexuality and then said, “Okay, but must love Jesus.” That amuses me!
And, I don’t think every giggle needs to happen in private in order to be kind. Life would be awfully boring if we couldn’t talk about the things we find funny or interesting, ask each other questions, disagree sometimes and still enjoy the conversation. That’s half the fun of getting to know people who don’t think exactly like we do. 🫶🏻
LTR ♾️ ANR,
There’s something wonderfully ironic about writing several paragraphs on the intellectual arrogance of atheists while simultaneously explaining how intellectually superior you are to atheists!
You’ve decided I’m tribal, close-minded, judgmental and apparently perched smugly on the first rung of some imaginary ladder, all from a silly post about the juxtaposition of Christianity and adult breastfeeding.
I spent years as a deeply committed Christian. I taught Sunday School, led Bible studies and practically lived at church. I know that world from the inside, and I’m perfectly capable of finding something about it funny without believing everyone in it is beneath me!
You didn’t offend me. You just argued very passionately with a version of me you made up.
But “welcome to Earth,” indeed! 🌎🌍🌏
I think this is where the assumption gets a little funny to me, because I’m one of the people who laughed at the original post and I also grew up VERY Catholic. Baptism, First Communion, Confirmation, church, a very religious family…the whole thing. And I still love Jesus and believe in God.
So when I laughed, it was never “LOL Christians have sexual desires.” Of course they do. For me it’s the juxtaposition of growing up in a world where anything remotely sexual could be treated like 😱 SIN!!…and now I’m casually scrolling an adult nursing website and seeing “Christian seeking Christian.” Tell me that isn’t at least a little funny. 😂
And here’s the ironic part! if ANR ever turned into a serious relationship for me, faith actually would matter. Not necessarily that someone believes every single thing I believe or that they need to believe at all but God is part of my life, so mutual respect and compatibility around that would matter to me.
That’s why I don’t really see the humor as anti Christian. Sometimes you can come from something, still believe in parts of it, and also laugh at the contradictions and unexpected places those worlds collide.
Called it 🙂
Like I said: the least among us. Don’t engage with these people, honestly. I’m showing all of you what happens, if you do.
Apologist tactics, the twisting of facts, the instilling of doubt, gaslighting: as if mocking Christians was “someone else’s” idea I “made up,” I mean _listen_ to that. It’s insidious.
Nothing says respect like going out of your way to start a thread about how “female seeking female” makes you giggle, right? That’s called trolling. The OP is a troll. Which is allowed here, and I welcome. More, more!
This is how narcissistic ideologues operate their every waking day. Take it in. Ask yourself how many days in a row you’d like to listen to someone manipulate the facts every time they speak. There’s a reason these people aren’t in relationships, and you can get them to reveal it anytime. Don’t ever get stuck with someone like that: just walk away. Don’t engage, they never end.
“You had me at manipulating the facts!” This is what’s freakish and strange about the ANR/ABF community. It’s not the breastfeeding, is the narcissism juxtaposed with the submission. It’s cartoonish.
While I never state that I’m more intelligent that anyone, the inference is appreciated. You can thank your felt sense of competitive intimidation with me, for that slip.
I’m done speaking to you, now. You can hand yourself the thread victory trophy on your own time. Enjoy salvaging what remains of your optics.
LTR ♾️ ANR,
Well, that escalated! We’ve gone from me finding “Christian seeking Christian” amusing on an adult breastfeeding site to me being a narcissistic ideologue who gaslights people, can’t maintain relationships and is apparently competitively intimidated by you 😂😂😂!
That is quite a lot to learn about myself from a man (or self described “houseboy”) who doesn’t know me!
You’re welcome to dislike my post. You’re welcome to dislike me. I know I’m not for everybody, and I wholeheartedly and enthusiastically accept that🙃😉😘 But, diagnosing my personality and speculating about my relationships because you didn’t like a forum post says considerably more about this exchange than anything I could add.
And I have to admit, repeatedly telling everyone “DON’T ENGAGE WITH HER” while writing paragraphs and paragraphs engaging with me is fucking funny…thank you for amusing me once again!
But you’ve now announced you’re done speaking to me, so on that we can happily agree. Take care 🫶🏻
M,
THIS is the kind of religious boundary I can get behind! Nobody needs to know that much about what we’ve been up to. 😈😇
To the human adults left lurking this dumpster o’ trollbait, do you remember “Say Potato!”?
I dunno about you but I’m gettin’ vibes. Same meta, same writing style, same insecurity drive, same trigger points. I mean, lord knows this might be the same person on a new account. Or one of the many basement dwelling / trans males that like to pose as women. Ever notice males posing as women make accounts that sound just like that thing?
Same fate as the effervescent potato, one would hope. I’d pay for that. That, I could support. Sign me up for a season’s pass, I’ll take the monthly donation option for keeping fake female profiles outta here. And sexist profiles, and trannytrolls, it would be SO nice to get rid of all that stuff, wouldn’t it? I’ll take a Sheriff badge, I’ll pay for that 🙂
I don’t think this is a matter for ridicule or being smug either. Folks(both men and women) are here from various religions, beliefs and backgrounds..their preferences good/bad/whatever matter too. And it’s only kind to be tolerant and accepting. I’m an atheist myself.
I think the joke works only if one assumes that someone has to compartmentalize their values depending on where they happen to be looking for a partner. But people don’t necessarily leave their religious identity, worldview, or relationship values at the door just because the website is sexually/otherwise niche.
Someone can be interested in a very specific kind of intimacy and still want a partner who shares their faith, values, or understanding of relationships. Those preferences aren’t mutually exclusive. If anything, the unusual setting makes the contrast funny, but it doesn’t make the preference irrational.
And the “Christian seeking Christian” part isn’t necessarily about deciding who is worthy of salvation based on their boobs. It’s about wanting compatibility beyond physical attraction. You can find someone incredibly attractive and still realize that fundamentally incompatible beliefs may make a relationship difficult.
The internet may be weird, but people’s relationship criteria don’t have to become incoherent just because they’re on a specific portal.
What are the Narc rules on forum signatures? Sometimes it’s there and sometimes it’s not. If the Narc is really feeling their oats and they’ve “nailed” it, is the signature like a “mic drop?” Because it’s not every post.
Is it a “boomer” thing? Like how people from prior media generations have outdated and conservative salutation and greeting expectations that no longer apply online, but: they’re boomers. And boomer is, as boomer does. Because it has serious “grandma on Facebook” feels, like someone’s not quite sure where they are.
As an aside, re: “engagement” with these online projection types, a popular feature easy to implement would be proper forum signatures. Little personalization touches like that help them do what they’re here to do. Signature banners would go over like hotcakes with the pixel pushers. Another great idea of mine you can implement. Free webdev advice from a former professional, who loves ya baby?
Wishing You All The Best,
From Your One And Only Source Of Truth In This Community,
Always,
LTR ♾️ ANR
It’s great branding, forum signatures.
Projectionists love the ability to brand. What makes signatures so effective is that they repeat, like an ad. That’s the key: all these little organic data centers, constantly processing input: training data. You can train ’em with whatever you want, and that training will become averaged into their resultant output. Nothing comes out of a brian that wasn’t first put in there. As you can imagine, it’s very important to realize this about yourself before someone else does 😉
After enough impressions, people cease to “read” or “hear” branding, as it accretes into the expected details of their environment. Your squishy data center is not a thinking machine: it’s a prediction machine. It is that knowledge which separates influencers from the influenced.
Wishing You All The Best,
From Your One And Only Source Of Truth In This Community,
Always,
LTR ♾️ ANR
Last thought, I know I’m in “Jon mode” rn (miss that guy – Jon get your buns back in here, mate).
But this thread reminds me of a more naive time in my life I’d like to share with you: I was early 20’s, playing an MMO called EverQuest. Clueless, I thought: hey, I like how the equipment looks on the female characters better. Fuck it, I’ll play a female.
This all ended when one day on a PvP raid, some darkie wizard kept killin’ me and after my Nth rez, there he was: low-poly and dwarven, down ‘pon bended knee, and up in my trade window appears: “Emerald Wedding Ring.” Which he’d sourced from a Jeweler, those weren’t dropped. That’s a crafted-only item he had crafted for the occasion.
I did not know this guy. We were in the same guild, but that’s it. I never spoke with him. Meanwhile, he’s got the digital-hots for my halfling druid.
That was the end of me being female online. I switched servers, started a new character: dick slider, ALL the way up. Oh, yea. There were sliders for everything back in the 90’s. Balls, half way past the knee. No more wedding rings in MY trade window, Jesus Christ what a mistake THAT was. I had no idea how crazy ya’ll were, back then. I’ve got a much, much clearer picture of it all, now.
I do remember thinking: “wow, people are SO nice in this game!” That all changed with the dick-slider. Lotta quiet time, no more free stuff. Kind of a different experience.
Wishing You All The Best,
From Your One And Only Source Of Truth In This Community,
Always,
LTR ♾️ ANR
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