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Exactly this! How do you explain how to suckle and not just suck. As a
Mum I can feel the difference and I know I was strict from the beginning with my newborns so they latched properly. Don’t know how to explain to a grown man though lolFlorence, great question! Someone had a video on here explaining it well, but truth be told, I think it’s just a natural ability that some grown men have and some don’t! I’ve heard women say they have had partners that didn’t latch or suckle right, and I was always confused bc I didn’t understand how someone COULDN’T latch! 😂 Like, it’s as easy as breathing for most guys in this community (I think).
I think to a certain extent you’re right and all men do inherently know how to. I think it may be more a case of a light bulb moment, that aha yes of course that’s how I do it moment
I refuse to believe this highly capable, intelligent and kind man can’t be shown a few pointers and be able to suckle like a good un 😉It’s a deep rythmic flow consciousness… it is more than physical it is metaphysical… women know the difference
@shiva agreed I can tell the difference in how it feels to receive but I’m not suckling myself lol so can we rewrite this in a way he can understand?
I would love to know how to explain this to a guy. When done right guys can get milk but how do you help a guy that isnt getting the milk? As a gal that doesn’t suckle herself I am interested in this as well. Good question!
Hello, wonder if this helps?
There was a link that no longer worked but there’s a new one at the end of the discussion that works now.
This is something I find really frustrating about men. They always think they have skills that they don’t or know what feels better for me than I do and wind up causing me pain. Flicking the tip of the nipple repeatedly with their tongue is not nursing and becomes overstimulating. If they have a good latch, I can go for hours. So few do, though. One guy even told me that my nipples would toughen up rather than learn proper technique. One thing that has really helped incredibly is learning about head positioning. Their head should be tilted back a little so that their chin rests on the lower part of the breast. The nipple should be angled up toward the roof of the mouth rather than straight back. Then they slide their tongue on the bottom of the areola, pressing up against the roof of the mouth as they slide their tongue back. Just try sticking your finger straight in your mouth and sucking on it and then angle the finger up toward the roof of your mouth. Huge difference. If the top teeth are pressing in to the top of the nipple, it is not going to feel as good.
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