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BOULDERS. 😂😂😂
Oh God. Yes. Straight into the same bin as jugs. Possibly underneath jugs.😡
But I’m dying because someone else just said she’d rather hear “mommy milkers” than “tits,” and meanwhile you’re already halfway out the door at “mommy.” 😂
I swear this thread is going to leave the men MORE confused than when we started. And frankly, I’m okay with that. 🤭
Ohhhh, David. 😂
Honestly, “insert preferred noun here” may be the safest answer any man has given on this entire thread. 😘
But you don’t get off THAT easily. What do YOU call them? (I’m thinking your screen name might give it away). 😉😘🤓
“Frat guy talk” made me laugh. 😂 That’s EXACTLY the energy some of those words give me.
I am not one for calling things by other names, pet names, etc, and I do not like being called anything other than my name…but I did see a woman on here once use the term “tasty titties” if that helps in this conversation!
😂😂 Well, look at New Jersey over there solving TWO problems I apparently didn’t know I had.
I’ll happily take the full-service gas. You can keep your jug handles. 🫶🏻
(Tried to tag you but not sure if it worked because you have me blocked). But, thanks for the input!
I hope this response finds you, as you have me blocked. But, here goes 😊
YES! This is exactly where I was hoping this conversation would eventually land.
There isn’t a magical universally sexy word for breasts. Apparently we can’t even get ten women to agree on “tits,” “boobs” or “mommy milkers” without somebody threatening to leave the building. 😂
So pay attention to the actual woman. Ask her. Learn what SHE likes.
Frankly, I find that sexier anyway. A man who’s curious about what turns me on is going to get a hell of a lot further than one who assumes he already knows. 🙃
Language is all about context. The situation, the people, the intended meaning are all factors.
I bet most women have been treated disrespectfully eg as a teen and the associated choice of words will reasonably be forever off-limits. The more sexual the association, the more likely it is to be unwelcome.
If you wouldn’t say it in front of a female relative/friend but only in the proverbial locker room, you already know whether it’s ok. In private, there are exceptions but those are specific to the individual. With that said, it’s hard to imagine jugs or knockers ever being welcome terminology.
The words aren’t the issue, it’s the respect or lack thereof. It’s like porn: you know it when you see it even if you can’t easily define it.
I’m starting to think hatred of the word “jugs” in reference to breast may be the one thing capable of uniting women everywhere!
Different ages, countries, preferences, personalities…doesn’t matter. Apparently we can all come together and say, “Yeah, no. Fuck jugs.”Of course now that I’ve said that, somebody is going to show up and passionately defend them. And honestly, that would be entertaining! 🤓
@sam-mcr 🤗
THRUPENNY BITS. 🤔
I’m sorry, but that sounds less like breasts and more like something I should be spending at a charming little village market.(I had to Google)!
The British delegation has officially complicated my research. 🤓
@lolamayi12345
And that’s exactly why I started by saying you know the type of guy who are here by the way they call women breast other than breast right away lol.
The point of getting to know someone is to actually be patient and and talk and get to know her/him not jumping into a sexual conversation right away. But then again not everyone on this site is here for the right reasons!!!I usually prefer to call the “girls” goddess nectar milkers 💦💦💦💦👅
This is very well said. Words absolutely carry more than their literal meaning. They come with tone, history, intention and sometimes a whole damn personality attached to them. That’s why I don’t think you can make a neat little list of “acceptable” and “unacceptable” words and call it done.
I especially like your locker-room test, because there’s a lot packed into that. Most of us know perfectly well when we’re choosing language because it feels intimate or sexy and when we’re choosing it because it’s crude. Those aren’t necessarily the same thing.
And I think your last point may be the heart of it. I can handle a hell of a lot more from someone who makes me feel respected than I can from someone who doesn’t. Context changes language because the PERSON changes the context.
Except jugs…I have searched my soul and found no path forward for jugs. 😘🤓
@lovebtreastmilk-2
You were doing SO well…
Patient. Get to know the woman. Don’t jump straight into sexual conversation. Pay attention to what she’s comfortable with.
YES. YES. YES.
And then you hit me with “goddess nectar milkers.”
Sir.
We were SO close!
I have heard them called ‘calcium cannons’ before, which is wild! I also once heard a lady refer to her own as ‘chesticles,’ which definitely made me chuckle. I wouldn’t use either of those, though. For me, I stick to the classics I just call them breasts or would say ‘your chest
@lolamayi12345
I don’t care for rhe sexual aspect to be honest. I leave that up to my partner once she’s comfortable. If she wants the sexual part I’m in and I’m okay also with the nursing part as well which it is what i desire the most, the bonding and connection.Sorry about the goddess nectar milkers lol.
I was trying to find a better word but I just couldn’t resist lol.
Still the woman I ended up with if I ever find her would be my goddess! Lol@gardenman 🌺🌸🌻🌷
CALCIUM CANNONS?! 🙄🙄🙄 Paul, I was completely unprepared for that one.🙄🙄🙄
And “chesticles” is so ridiculous that I almost respect it… Almost.
I do find “your chest” interesting though. It feels almost deliberately neutral, like you’re staying VERY safely out of the linguistic minefield the rest of us are wandering through. You are a smart man, my friend. 😘
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