– Update: Rose dives deeper into her why.
A Milkmaid’s Tale
– My Why –
by 
Agent Rose
Hello everyone,
I am glad to be back. Work got to be a bit mental and then I wound up having some technical issues with my laptop to boot. Thank you for all the comments and messages that you’ve left me. There was a common theme in some of the inquiries. The questions were centered on my why and, in particular, why I have chosen to embark on this journey alone as I search for a partner. Without further ado, I begin.
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Thank you Rose for sharing your journey.
Beautifully written, and great insight offered. Thank you for sharing! I admire you!
Beautiful. Thank you for sharing.
Beautifully expressed Freja! I hope you find your true connection to to complete the circuit and share you life force with!
You put ANR in a nice way and right context.
Ying and Yang completes the circle of life.
Always enjoyed your thoughts.
Thanks for sharing.
Aww Rose
So beautifully written and expressed. I’m so happy you have enabled your inner feminine/goddess to be expressed.
True surrender is so powerful (for me, not in a Dom sub way but in an emptiness to enjoy the fullness of experience). Then there is the connection you wrote about, that oneness.
I have no questions, but so appreciate you sharing your journey
Thank you Rose.
You are a beautiful and courageous soul to be as vulnerable as you are here. That is also a huge step in embracing your femininity as well.
Be proud! I appreciate you.
My personal opinion, I don’t feel you are over romanticizing ANR. With my journey in speaking with people and research on the topic, it seems that most people who truly desire a true ANR are pulled to have that shared experience and investment in one another.
You ladies are doing most of the hard work in lactation. I can imagine wanting and needing that returned investment is all too important to the process as well.
Thank you again Rose. You truly are amazing!
For me, you’re the unicorn: really special and unique.
Hi Rose.
After reading your blogs I bit the bullet and bought a breast pump. It arrived today. To say I’m excited is an understatement. I would love to have milk again. Like yourself, I’m not in a relationship but I wont mind drinking it when it comes in 😂😂
YESSSS!
Beautiful words, and as a newbie it felt like you had stepped into my head and wrote down how I feel, and I’m
Sure others, joand I will be reading every part of your journey 👍
I am enjoying your blog! Send me a note sometime!
That is great. I love that you are undertaking this process. I’m here to support you!
Hi Rose!
Thanks again for sharing your thoughts with us. A great insight to the other side of a breastfeeding embrace. I enjoy seeing abf/anr from your perspective.
Keep it up!
“Energy or lifeforce flows with an expression of complete surrender in the act of the gifting of not just breastmilk but a cocoon of time and space to my partner. A space where the distractions of life are at bay and the beginnings of an eternity of connection unfolding.”
Rose, I don’t think I have heard or read a more wonderful description of the emotional and psychological benefits of an ABF/ANR connection.
Wonderful blog ! Your dedication to ABF and to your readers is much appreciated.
Thank you Rose, I’m new to the site and new to ABF and ANR completely. This is a new world to me, and one I didn’t know existed! What you said about the feeling you get that a circle is complete really resonated with me. It’s what brings me here. I’ve not been able to have this yet but it’s that feeling that this feels like it would make me whole, give me energy and fill me up. I’m looking forward to exploring the world further. Thank you again.
Lovely blog! Thank you for sharing the energy science behind latching with emotional and psychological benefits, Thank you Rose once again.
It seemes so relevant, thank you for all this sharing
Enjoyed your sharing Rose!
The expectation and demands placed upon you were a double edged sword.
From this persons perspective you were armed for life and your ability to negotiate and thrive. On the other edge denied you certain self discoveries. From your writing it sounds like you are making amazing new personal and exciting discoveries!
Your writing has helped me as I continue to understand and grow in my understandings as it relates my own experiences and yearnings.
Thank you!
Linden
I’ve just consumed all of your posts. Thank you so very much for being so open & sharing your journey. This post though was what I’ve been searching for. It’s helped me to understand my confused feelings within myself in how I view ANF. Now I’m at peace. Thank you 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
Thank you for sharing your journey….Happy holidays to you !!
Just a lovely way of thinking of this! Giving of life and completing a circuit is really relatable to me. I wish you so much happiest and success on your journey!
I understand, really understand your journey.