To be fair: What women want in a man

[Lola]

@serioussucker

Well, this is certainly an interesting response to discovering a woman has blocked you.

You’ve taken a woman you knew decades ago, constructed an unsolicited comparison between the two of us, made some fairly extraordinary assumptions about me, and then posted the whole thing publicly under the banner of a compliment.

Perhaps the block isn’t quite as mysterious as you think it is.

But I will say this: being a woman who doesn’t suffer fools does not necessarily mean she stands alone on a pedestal. Sometimes it simply means she’s selective about who gets access to her.

PS…thinking I’d give a single damn what Jordan Peterson has to say may be the most spectacular misread of me or any female on the planet! Are you okay? 😂

[Sucker4Nipples]

At some points IMHO, I think you read too much into what was written. I was hardly out of line stating that H stood alone on a pedestal. She was world class in her scientific field. That is not my award. That was her peers awarding her when they initially turned over preparing the most complex machine man ever built. I put her on a pedestal because of who she was not what she did. There was no physical attraction whatsoever as she was about the most unfeminine woman I ever met.

You elsewhere admitted that we all have our preferences physically. I do too but that has never been grid through which I interact personally with others. I never shied away from talking to that beautiful woman sitting at the end of the bar alone. but then again, I never shied away from the woman who made herself a wallflower at a party. I viewed both equally because we’re all in this world lone. We are all fighting wars inside our heads. I think that is why when a rock star or movie star, etc I somehow struck a cord with them to where it developed into something more than a handshake or an autograph. If I told you his name you would know him. I was given a back stage pass but by the end of the night he gave me all his contact info and for several years we stayed in touch until he unexpectedly lost the battle with cancer. Not every one responded positively. Down through the years I’ve had several people tell me they didn’t like me until sometime later when they got to know me. There is no formula where you can be all things to all people. It just isn’t going to happen.

I’m not sure what your last sentence was meant to ask. I am at an age where I can just smile. Have a good life, Lola. I remember when that song was played on the radio.

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