- This topic has 22 replies, 16 voices, and was last updated 8 months ago by
.
-
Posts
-
hello how are you all?
I suppose that like everyone I made my profile on this page to look for something, in my case, and it is what I expressed in my description, I am looking for an LTR. I don’t understand why most of the men here think we are prostitutes? They make comments without even saying hello or send intimate photos that I have not asked for. I think that regardless we have a fetish, we are all people here and we must respect each other.
Maybe I am in the wrong place, if so, can you please tell me what is wrong?
ThanksAlot of these ppl joining, are new and not aware of message etiquette. I am firm with them, by telling them what is acceptable and what is not. Think of them as children. Educate them. If they don’t know, they will never learn. And if they contine to be disrespectful, escalate it to admin. That’s why they are there.
Dick picks are an automatic block and it’s a reportable incident.
Block is a girls bestfriend. Use it.
Good luck.
Thanks for answering. I thought blocking people was extreme but apparently it’s necessary in some cases
This is a daily issue for me, as well. I give them an earful and block them, but it’s getting so discouraging I am contemplating leaving. I wish there were a way to turn off messaging so only people you have screened and accepted as friends can message. It wouldn’t solve the issue 100%, but it would make a huge difference in being bombarded with such incredibly rude and presumptuous messages.
That could be a good idea! It is the second time that I am on this page, and previously I had left due to harassment. I think not many remember that we are also human beings with feelings.
Kelly. You can set messages to “Friends Only” for new message threads on your My Private Messages screen, blue cog icon at bottom of messages window is the Settings control.
Anybody can contact me at anytime to report ANY type of unacceptable behaviour …pestering multiple messages, aggressive, insulting, or unwelcome pics etc.
I always take action, be it a warning to the person sending messages, or simply remove them immediately.I posted this a few weeks ago on a similar subject.
I appreciate and support everything shared here. I want to note that the unfortunate side affect is that there are several respectful, educated, thoughtful men here as well, that maybe fall through the cracks because they are lumped in with all the others. Getting little to no response from earnest interest can also be disheartening. Just something to consider.
That said I do understand and find unfortunate that many of the male profiles are sending messages like you describe. Not helpful to any of us and you deserve respect. Hope your post can move the needle in the right way.
Hi Lilith. Don’t get discouraged. There are plenty of really good people on this site. It the “Best” site for abf/anr that I’ve found. I count myself lucky to have made friends on here and even luckier to have met a few of them. Block, weed the bad apples. Befriend the decent ones.🤗
I perfectly understand what you mean and I have had such bad experiences that I think is impossible to find someone who does not just want some free porn fantasy. There are prostitutes and they should go and pay one if all they want is some ” short fun” in which they get to use women as body parts, they could also just buy a sex doll, pay for a sex chat bot. I have been looking for a long time, and I can sadly tell you, you are not alone on that. Even some people who will pretend to want something long term you will soon find that they just said that so they can use you for a one time thing, then find some excuse on something they already knew about you to end it. It is so degrading.
I agree with everyone above. As a man, I find it unfortunate that so many women are bombarded with messages from guys that don’t get it to the point that the guys like me, who are genuinely appreciative of what ANR/ABF truly is, are thrown out with the trash.
I am on other ANR/ABF dating sites and they are more dead than anything. This site is truly the most vibrant, active, supportive, and best website for finding the relationship those of us who are true ANR/ABF lovers are looking for.
Please, don’t give up. Same for you, Kelly.
- You must be logged in to reply to this topic.