How to avoid narcissism, pretenders and mental angst.

[Dean 4 ABF]

Good morning all,
I was just wondering if there was anyone else out there who has spotted likely traits of narcissism among the ANR community?

Plenty of spin and photographs of how lovely we all are, but when it comes to demonstrating genuine desires for the right ANR partner, unless you are willing to join in the narcissistic ways, I feel like one is wasting time.

All of my previous ANR relationships have been discovered in real life, not on the interweb; based on meeting real people, getting to know them, enjoying time together and forming the great bonds which ensue.

I find nothing like that here, and definitely no willingness to actually meet up and do the right things to succeed.
Instead it’s a mere show of “Look at me and see how great I look.. I will tempt you but never indulge”.

Absolute narcissism and faux messaging.

I am in this for the long haul and can offer so much to a prospective ANR partner by way of dedication, resource and devotion… regardless of how someone looks or poses in front of a camera (indeed many images here are not of the person concerned).

I have recently moved to my more northern home for the summer to avoid excess heat, so I have a new area to discover better and perhaps meet the right lady up here.

I genuinely wish you all well, but for your own sake and the sake of your mental wellbeing; please get real and don’t waste too much time as a mere voyeur of the sparkly jewels.

I now expect to be removed as a member for saying this stuff; and if that is the case, I wish you all well and the very best of fortune.
Dean x

[Production Assistant]

I don’t think you should be removed for speaking your mind Dean, you didn’t single anyone out, you definitely hit on some very good points, I will warn you though that there are a couple of Karen’s here that will be all over you,they are any time a guy says something in this room unfortunately

[Production Assistant]

Having said what I said earlier I should probably add that there are also some very genuine very sweet very kind ladies on here who I fully believe have everyone’s best interest at heart, I know because I have met one of them, there are always going to be those who are in it for all the wrong reasons, and we learn to sift through them filter them out and move on to the good stuff, and that’s how I approach it with everybody maybe you can try and do that too Dean

[Ken]

Obviously Dean has had unfortunate experiences here. This can and will happen to both men and women. The only thing to do is ignore, block, be patient and keep searching.

[AsianAndReal]

I’d be happy to meet anyone interested in ABF regardless of any of those traits you mentioned since I have never met anyone who actually wanted that.

I’m starting to think there is no one in real life that likes it and everyone is just talk or role-playing on this site.

[Ken]

No, completely not true.

[oltittyguy]

I think this site is better than other dating sites, a lot less fakes and scammers and if i dont find anyone near me i enjoy the chat and great pics 😍😛

[K]

Sorry you feel that way AsianAndReal. I know i am normal and have met a handful of guys from this site. There are a few things I know i look for in a person when wanting to experience ABF with an individua and i could really care less about penis size. Just like my boobs don’t define me, a penis isn’t going to define a person for me.

[LTR ♾️ ANR]

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Narcissistic_supply

It’s generally obvious who’s here to play the supply game, but therein lies the twist: the narc’s are always the last to know. Because: narcissists are intimidated by and therefor dismissive of any psychological framing of them as narcissists. They have a natural, knee-jerk tendancy to deny and reject the claim along with anything else they perceive as personally negative.

Contraria sunt complimenta are their enablers, the supply, equipped with pedastal and silk pillow, presenting a boquet of anti-anxiety, unchallenging prose. This is easy math for anyone with 2 eyes and a pencil: for some, ANR means Adolescent Narcissism Relationship and as you can imagine, there’s going to be a lot less nursing in those.

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