- This topic has 33 replies, 15 voices, and was last updated 8 months, 2 weeks ago by
.
-
Posts
-
Hello Everyone,
I’m wondering if anyone has had success, for lack of a better word, with an inexperienced partner?
My experience with nursing an inexperienced partner, has been rather disappointing. Regardless if it was something they never heard of before, and I educated them on it or if was something they wanted to try but never had the chance.
It makes me wonder if some of us are just wired to nurse.
Definitely some of us are wired for it, but almost anyone can learn the concepts. But not everyone can truly love it, that isn’t a choice any more than being ticklish or having ADHD.
I suppose so, still good experiences with non-experienced ladies tbh
Considering that it’s a more passive activity for the person being suckled on, that makes sense.
Jay, when you were learning, did you get a lot of guidance or did it come naturally to you?
Person should understand that Nursing and suckling is different than just sucking. It is lot more then just sucking the nipple.
It should be instinctive. I never required guidance or a learning phase. Never been corrected, no complaints. Latching should definitely be no great mystery, it should be the easiest thing in the world.
Thanks for the feedback. I should preface, that I have had previous experience with inexperienced partners.
I do not want you to message me and tell me that you’re experienced.
It’s just a question, in a forum.
I haven’t found any success with someone who is not experienced, sad but true!!!
I pretty much self taught myself to how to latch on cause suckling was just basic sucking I needed to know the anatomy of the action plus learning more about lactation supplements etc etc what consists of what needs are needed in something like this, and etc etc. all pretty much self independent study which has improved my knowledge better on this subject.
Ain’t nothing with not knowing what the hell your doing cause life’s about learning and nothing wrong with constructive criticism either, there’s always room to improve 🙂
For those of us that “get it”, nursing or being nursed, I believe it is instinctive and primal. Experienced or not the process of learning should be quick vs those that are only in to breast play.
There is a nursing couple on pornhub, wolfradish, that do some educational type stuff. I have sent the link on how to latch to prospective partners that hadn’t nursed before. I don’t know if we can share those type of links, but I can add it if it is allowed.
It was a learned technique for me. While I’ve been an avid breast admirer, it took a milkshake to get me on the right track.😜
I have been with inexperienced women it’s was easy to have too strong of a suckle. Work with each other to get to a happy medium. It has led to a much more enjoyable experience.@msaeval those resources are in my blog post here https://abfheaven.com/wolfradish-video-review/#more-83455
@natasha It also depends on the inexperienced person’s willingness to learn. I’ve had inexperienced partners who had all the information provided, but thought they knew more. Didn’t feel the need to “learn”. A partner needs to be willing to change their process and be considerate of the person they are suckling from. Some individuals are more capable of that than others. If they’re not open or willing to really try, cut bait.
Hello
I have to shoot in a comment. Im a kind of a unexperienced guy who looking for female nursing partners in norway cause I live there. As a guy in my 20s there are so difficult to find a partner here in norway. Everytime i ask they dont even have knowledge about it and think its wierd. I remember i was talking to a woman and she Said adult babies is not for her. I tried to explain that its not a always a baby relationship but a new erotic way for connection and build a sensual bond. It needs effort from both parts. Its quit sad that the majority dosent have knowledge about ABF beside normal breastfeeding a infant.
- You must be logged in to reply to this topic.