Do you actually want an ANR partner… or do you just want ANR? 👀

[Creamandcoffee]

I see ANR described all the time as intimate, nurturing, bonding, and something people want to share with someone special. And that got me thinking… if that’s really what you’re looking for, then the person should matter just as much as the ANR itself.

There’s a difference between wanting ANR and wanting ANR with a particular person. Attraction, comfort, personality, chemistry, and how you feel around someone all play a part.

Otherwise, at what point are you looking for a partner, and at what point are you just looking for a willing pair of breasts attached to somebody who checks enough boxes? 😬😂

So for the receivers especially: how much does the individual woman actually matter? Could you have that dynamic with practically any provider you found attractive and compatible enough, or does it take a particular woman to make you want that experience with her?

Curious to hear where people land on this one.

[Ambrosiaspell11]

Most men here are just looking for free porn, as if they did not know they can find free porn, most men here do not want a partner, they want to save money on a prostitute by finding someone who would do that for free, then they say there is an epidemic of loneliness but they just want women as short term toys.

[John]

I DO want a partner, yet in the right context. I’m looking for Wife No. 2. I did marriage quite wrong the first time and I want to do it very right the second time. If there is a second time. I know I must be the person I am looking for is looking for. That said, the best part of my first marriage was ABF/ANR I had for nine months with our youngest child. While my ex let me nurse, she didn’t truly understand what it was for me, nor did she try. My next wife must understand. Maybe they won’t be open to it, maybe they will. But I will bring it up at some point before marriage. There will be other factors more important for me to consider, but my hope is to find a woman open to ABF/ANR.

[Paul]

For me personally, the person matters immensely. We have to genuinely get along and have a mutual attraction. Ultimately, I am looking for a healthy relationship with someone I can fall in love with. The ANR is a way to deepen that bond, but I have to fall in love with the person first.You made a great point about the danger of just looking for a “willing pair of breasts.” For me, if I don’t care about her mind, personality, and heart, then it isn’t a real bond—it’s just a transaction. An ANR requires an immense amount of trust and vulnerability, and that level of comfort only comes when I truly know and trust the individual woman.Someone can check every single box on paper, but if we don’t click as people, there is simply no point. I couldn’t just do this with anyone.

[Sax]

I am 31 year old male from London looking for a partner to suckle on her for hours on end message me if interested

[Grogman 🍑🚀💙]

It seems that some people think that the R in ANR must be a long term endeavor. I’m not one of those folks. A relationship is whatever those two people want it to be. Having a friendship first, then incorporating abf into it works for me. I assume that anyone on this site already desires the adult breastfeeding component of anr.

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