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I see ANR described all the time as intimate, nurturing, bonding, and something people want to share with someone special. And that got me thinking… if that’s really what you’re looking for, then the person should matter just as much as the ANR itself.
There’s a difference between wanting ANR and wanting ANR with a particular person. Attraction, comfort, personality, chemistry, and how you feel around someone all play a part.
Otherwise, at what point are you looking for a partner, and at what point are you just looking for a willing pair of breasts attached to somebody who checks enough boxes? 😬😂
So for the receivers especially: how much does the individual woman actually matter? Could you have that dynamic with practically any provider you found attractive and compatible enough, or does it take a particular woman to make you want that experience with her?
Curious to hear where people land on this one.
Most men here are just looking for free porn, as if they did not know they can find free porn, most men here do not want a partner, they want to save money on a prostitute by finding someone who would do that for free, then they say there is an epidemic of loneliness but they just want women as short term toys.
I DO want a partner, yet in the right context. I’m looking for Wife No. 2. I did marriage quite wrong the first time and I want to do it very right the second time. If there is a second time. I know I must be the person I am looking for is looking for. That said, the best part of my first marriage was ABF/ANR I had for nine months with our youngest child. While my ex let me nurse, she didn’t truly understand what it was for me, nor did she try. My next wife must understand. Maybe they won’t be open to it, maybe they will. But I will bring it up at some point before marriage. There will be other factors more important for me to consider, but my hope is to find a woman open to ABF/ANR.
For me personally, the person matters immensely. We have to genuinely get along and have a mutual attraction. Ultimately, I am looking for a healthy relationship with someone I can fall in love with. The ANR is a way to deepen that bond, but I have to fall in love with the person first.You made a great point about the danger of just looking for a “willing pair of breasts.” For me, if I don’t care about her mind, personality, and heart, then it isn’t a real bond—it’s just a transaction. An ANR requires an immense amount of trust and vulnerability, and that level of comfort only comes when I truly know and trust the individual woman.Someone can check every single box on paper, but if we don’t click as people, there is simply no point. I couldn’t just do this with anyone.
I am 31 year old male from London looking for a partner to suckle on her for hours on end message me if interested
It seems that some people think that the R in ANR must be a long term endeavor. I’m not one of those folks. A relationship is whatever those two people want it to be. Having a friendship first, then incorporating abf into it works for me. I assume that anyone on this site already desires the adult breastfeeding component of anr.
For Myself finding a partner is important personally. Tho some people ive encounter are just here for the sensation or to try it for the first time. Which has help me enjoy anr alot more, but also has helped me find someone who I feel a strong connection with. So I started wanting just ANR and its now fine tuned what I want in a partner if that makes sense 🤔
Okay, these answers are already showing exactly why I asked the question 😂
I actually agree that the “R” in ANR doesn’t automatically have to mean romance, marriage, or a traditional relationship. Friendship is still a relationship, and two people can decide for themselves what that connection looks like.
What I’m really getting at is whether there’s genuine interest in the person you’re sharing ANR with, whatever form that relationship takes.
Because there’s a pretty big difference between wanting a connection with someone who also enjoys ANR and simply wanting access to the nursing experience itself. Neither has to be wrong, but I do think they’re different things.
And honestly, some of these answers are making me think the “R” deserves its own thread, because I’m starting to wonder how differently everyone here defines it 😂
The ‘R’ means relationship, gentlemen. When its not long term irs called ABF.
Relationships are different. So it doesnt necessarily mean marriage. Wharever suits the couple. But a hook up is not a relationship.I think you are right…there is a lot of variation in how people understand what an ANR actually is…and how it is different from ABF.
I understand the R in ANR to actually mean a relationship with a person with whom one feels attraction, chemistry, compatibility, and mutual interests outside the nursing context. ABF seems to be just a casual encounter (even if repeated) that includes nursing…but not with the added levels of relationship or caring for another person and their well-being.
Unfortunately, I have found that most men on this site are looking for the casual ABF, or simply a sexual/transactional experience and not a real or authentic relationship.
Beef Kun
That actually makes a lot of sense 🤔 Starting out interested in the experience itself and then realizing through experience what you actually want in a person/dynamic is a really interesting distinction.
I think that’s different from treating the person as interchangeable, because you’re saying ANR actually helped you narrow down what kind of connection works for you.
Creamandcoffee
It certainly has! And yes there are some Nurses who i still just chat and shoot the S%#t with. But currently im having quite alot of fulfillment with the current Nurse I’ve met
And we are building and defining the R side of things as we go but its all been good vibes and fun times
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