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@lolamayi12345 we are not here to push back at people. If I make a post I don’t own it. Michael owns the site and we have both tried to get people to take this issue seriously.
If someone posts something in a post I created that I don’t like.. I try to think and give them a benefit of doubt. I don’t say “fund raising drive”. We come into this world with nothing and we leave carrying nothing.. if you didn’t like my comments .. just ignore them.. it’s easy to do right?
No. What would have been easy was simply not using a thread you had no interest in actually answering to promote an entirely different conversation.
I gave you the benefit of the doubt. I explained what bothered me and why. You disagreed. That’s fine.
But “we are not here to push back at people” is an odd expectation. We’re adults having conversations. Sometimes people disagree. Sometimes someone says, “I don’t think that was fair.” I’m perfectly comfortable with both.
And you’re right about one thing, neither of us owns the site. But I did start this particular conversation, and I’m allowed to say when I think something introduced into it is dismissive of what other people have shared.
You said, “If you did mean what you wrote” and “actions speak louder than words.” I disagreed with the implication of those words, and I still do.
We’ve both made our positions abundantly clear now, so I’m going back to the conversation everyone else was having.
You’re more than welcome to join us by actually answering the questions in the post.
Or, as you suggested, you can simply ignore it. Easy to do, right? 😉
I’m looking for it all friendships relationship and long term goal in momd
@georgeh 🤗
Going for the whole package. I respect it!
Friendships along the way and hopefully your person at the end of it. Seems like a pretty good reason to stick around. I hope you find everything you’re looking for and more! 🫶🏻
Sparkling, I’ve already explained exactly why I felt it was dismissive. Twice. I’m not going to keep rewording the same answer until you agree with me.
And at the risk of pointing out the obvious…you did JUST tell me that if I didn’t like a comment, I could simply ignore it because it’s easy to do. 🤔
Perhaps this is an excellent opportunity for both of us to test that theory.
I’m going back to the confessions now. ❤️
I’m new here. I found the site from a comment in Reddit and I’m hoping to find someone I can suckle with. It’s not something you can ask someone about in casual conversation or even when you’re out with someone on a date. I might stay if I manage to meet people who are interesting and fun to talk to outside of the main topic. I do feel like it’s probably a very different experience for a woman on this site than it is for men.
Welcome, Tom! And Reddit strikes again.😉
I think you’ve already figured out one of the nice things about having a place like this. You’re right, “So…how do you feel about adult breastfeeding?” probably isn’t first-date material for most people. Here, at least, you get to skip the part where you wonder if you’re the only person on earth who’s interested in it.
But I’m curious about your last comment. I suspect you’re right that men and women can have VERY different experiences on this site. I’ve only ever experienced it from my side of the fence.
Stick around and tell us what you think once you’ve been here awhile. And definitely venture into chat. That’s where I’ve gotten to know people beyond the boobs. 😎🫶🏻
I joined because I am in love with boobs, and while searching online I stumbled into the ABF world and found this forum.
I thought it was a dating site, but instead I discovered a lively and close-knit community.
I’m writing from Italy, and here ABF is an unknown world—in fact, on the forum there are few users and no active women.
I met a couple of people where we thought about meeting up, but then suddenly the interest faded: in my idea of ABF, the human aspect comes before a couple of pieces of meat.I’ve let go of that idea (actually, there would have been some chance of meeting up because I was contacted, but then it didn’t work out, and anyway those were fleeting things and it’s not what I’m looking for).
Ever since I signed up (today I checked my age on my profile and I’ve been here for over a year), I’ve had the chance to talk to extraordinary people about any topic and without prejudices.So, since I’ve shelved my idea of finding a partner, why am I here? For the community!
Being able to talk to people from all over the world, improving my English while sharing my passions, and listening to stories of simple daily life: we are people digging into our own miseries, and that keeps us alive.The TL;DR of it. I came here during COVID (Is it supposed to be all caps? Oh well.) to make sense of the world and, hopefully, attain a calm I was seeking but could not find on the news (that was a stupid choice) or the myriad of Netflix shows.
I stay here for the glint of hope. The glint of hope someone in my region has the same desires I do.
Sometimes I’m ready to quit, but I talk myself into one more day. One more day — the next day — may be different. I’m not sulking, by the way. I mean…facing facts…I’m getting older. How should I spend my time? Reading. Yup. Exercising. Yup. Socializing. Yup. No regerts (msp intentional). I’m just ready to relax. R-E-L-A-X. Is that too much to ask?
Luca, I think you may have accidentally described one of my favorite things about this place.
We’re scattered all over the world, living completely different lives, and somehow we end up knowing who’s had a terrible day at work, whose garden is misbehaving, who’s traveling, who needs cheering up and who’s probably about to say something inappropriate in chat. 😳
That ordinary-life stuff is what surprised me too. The boobs may get us through the door, but apparently they’re not enough to keep us interested in each other. We actually have to LIKE the humans attached to them. 🤭
And for what it’s worth, I think putting the human connection first is probably the best chance you have of eventually finding the kind of ABF connection you were looking for anyway. Even if she’s nowhere near Italy at the moment. ❤️
In the meantime, you’re improving your English with a bunch of international boob enthusiasts, which is certainly a more interesting language-immersion program than Duolingo.😉😎
First of all, I appreciate that you clarified you’re not sulking because I was absolutely about to picture you dramatically staring out a rain covered window in Kansas waiting for your breast friend to appear.😉
But I get the “glint of hope” thing. There’s something rather lovely about not knowing who might wander through the door tomorrow. And I don’t think getting older means you have to become terribly practical about all of it either. Read the books. Exercise. Socialize. AND leave a little room for something unexpected to happen.
Also, I’m fairly certain anyone deliberately writing “no regerts” is not quite ready to retire to a life of quiet contemplation. 😉
So stay another day.
Worst case, you’re still stuck with us.
Best case…Kansas surprises you. 🫶🏻
I’m definitely here for the friends. If something happens, it happens. But friends are why I stay.
And most people laugh at my stupid sense or humor and my jokes.
@lola may
Im in the shadows of the site more than anything, but really enjoy being here for the discussions, comments, puzzles, and in general, information and hope of a connection one day. What i feel quite sure of after some time here is you are a very treasured and positive pillar of this little community! You are greatly appreciated!
🙂I mean, finding people who will voluntarily keep listening to your stupid jokes is basically the highest form of friendship.😉
And I like the “if something happens, it happens” approach. No grand mission. No five-year ABF strategic plan. Just hanging out, making people laugh and seeing what wanders your way.😎
Honestly, President Camacho, you may be one of the more emotionally stable people here.
Which is concerning. 😳😘
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