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Triton. ❤️
You know what I kept thinking while I was reading this? You came here wanting someone to really see you, and I’m not sure you realize how good YOU are at making other people feel seen.
You’re hilarious, obviously, and I thoroughly enjoy giving you a hard time 😉, but there’s a depth to you that I think a lot of us have gotten to know and genuinely care about. You pay attention. You’re curious about people. You can be completely ridiculous one minute and have a conversation that actually matters the next. I really like that about you.
And I hate that there have been times in your life when you’ve felt like a background character. I hope you know you’re anything but that here.
I still hope you find the connection you originally went looking for. But in the meantime, you’ve managed to become pretty important to some of us along the way.
Certainly to me. 😘
I’m very glad our paths crossed in this strange little corner of the internet.
@lolamayi12345 I could not ha said it any better. I stayed for exactly the same reasons. Made friends on the other end of the world.
A variety of people on here. Having an interest in abf/anr isnt enough to get along, like irl. Thats okay.as long as people are respectful and are not making fun of others because they might be different or you dont agree with them or she is a woman celebrating her femininity, We dont have to like everybody, just let people be.
We are having a lot of fun and banter!@dairydaisy 🫶🏻
Exactly! I don’t need everybody here to be my cup of tea, and I’m quite certain I’m not everybody else’s. That’s half the beauty of it.
Be respectful. Let people be weird. Let women celebrate themselves. Let people want different things without needing to defend them. Then go find the ones who make you laugh and make the place more fun when they show up.
Which, rather unexpectedly, is how I ended up finding YOU all the way over in the Netherlands. 🩷
Not a bad little side effect of joining a website about boobs. 🫶🏻
Ive been here ocer a year and met lots of people ( male and female) who are healing from very different kinds of traumatic experiences ( including myself!)
So, except for having lots of fun, i think many people find common ground in the search for safety in closeness. We all are vulnerable in a way. Dont be scared and dismiss it. Lets admit it and see the beauty in being human.Study8ng the room while looking like I couldn’t care less, remember? 😉 I will definitely not walk away from here. The nonsense is here to stay
Lovely confession Lola May, or better yet a proclamation of the goodness of ABFHeaven. Enjoy the 1st official day of Fall and say good bye to that hot/humid summer! BTW…I have nothing to confess at the moment, but here’s to a beautiful Autumn for you Lola May and the rest of the verified profiles here!
@cravinmilk 🍂🍁🍂
Thank you! And a beautiful autumn to you too!
But “nothing to confess”?? 🤨😂 On THIS website?
I’m skeptical. I’ll give you some time to think about it. 🤭🍂
Hi all,
I already wrote my part in various posts today especially asking people to get verified .. it’s simple easy and it helps keep the site running for much longer. Michael needs our support as much as possible. Please if you did mean what you wrote here, do your part to see this site flourish and prosper. Actions speak louder than words..
Thank you,
SinSo, when I first started on this amazing site, I didn’t know what to expect. To be honest, I never thought people would be interested in me, as I was—and probably am still—a bit shy.
I started looking for an ABF partner and the end goal of having a ANR/LTR with a few failed attempts. But you have to pick yourself back up and try again, right?
Then I found the courage to say hello in the chat room, and everything changed! The people were so welcoming, and I made new friends. I then had one experience which was absolutely magical: we fell asleep together as I suckled, and she said it was the most peaceful moment she’d had in a long time. To have that connection was heavenly!
To have someone—or so many people—to talk to about ABF without being judged gave me confidence in myself. So yes, I found confidence and friendship, and I also love the banter and obviously the flirting. This place, this little piece of heaven in our corner of the internet, has become an important part of my life, and so have some of the people I’ve talked to. It’s a place I can finally be myself, and it kinda feels like home. This is why I stay!! So thank you, Michael, for all the hard work you do!
@sind 🤓
Sparkling, I’m going to push back on one part of this.
I don’t think anyone here needs to prove they “meant what they wrote” by supporting the site in one particular way. People have shared some genuinely personal things on this thread about what this community has meant to them, and I’m going to take them at their word.
Verification is a separate conversation and certainly one worth having, but that wasn’t what I was asking here.
I’d still genuinely love to hear YOUR confession though. Four years around this place? Surely you’ve got something better for us than a membership drive, and we are all ears! 🫶🏻
@gardenman 🌸🌺🌸🌺🌸
Paul, the idea that you were once too shy to even say hello in chat is cracking me up a little. Look at you now!😂😘
But I’m really glad you finally did. You bring such a sweet, playful energy with you, and this place wouldn’t be quite the same without you in it.
And I love that somewhere along the way you found enough confidence to just be yourself here. I think that may be one of the best things any community can give us.
Also, “obviously the flirting.” Yes, Paul. We’ve noticed. 😎😜😘
It’s been fabulous to watch Paul transform over the last few months. When he first came into chat we used to tease him soooo much and he didn’t know what to do with himself. Now he gives as good as he gets and it’s bloody brilliant!!
That’s not fair. I didn’t push for any membership drive .. I just mean that we can do more.. and we should to keep this place functioning. You started the post and I heard people say great things about it so I just thought why not mention the need to support the site.. at least it will be “seen”. I will feel better too for having done my part.
In the 4.5 years I have been here I have never seen Michael post so regularly for us to support it. This is worth noting and something to pay attention to. If you’re verified .. you can still give a little is what I am saying because all of his messages are not being heard. If we care about a community we need to help build it up.
@welshie 🩷
I’m actually a little sorry I missed shy Paul. The poor man apparently never stood a chance with you lot.
And now look at him…flirting all over the place like he owns the joint. I ❤️ it!
@sind 💎
Sparkling, you’re still missing my point.
I’m not disagreeing with you about supporting the site. If you feel strongly about getting more people verified or encouraging additional financial support, then start a post about it. Seriously. Give it its own conversation and make your case. There’s absolutely a place for that.
This just isn’t it.
People have shared some incredibly personal things here. They’ve talked about loneliness, trauma, intimacy, friendship, confidence, feeling accepted and finding connections they never expected to make.
So yes, I pushed back on “if you did mean what you wrote” and “actions speak louder than words.”
I don’t think that’s fair.
Nobody here needs to prove the sincerity of what they shared by opening their wallet. I asked what this community means to people, and they answered. Some of them very vulnerably. Their words are enough.
By all means, advocate for supporting ABF Heaven. I have no issue with that whatsoever. But please give that conversation its own space rather than turning this one into something it was never intended to be.
I’d like this post to remain about the people sharing their stories, not about whether they’ve done enough to prove they care.
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