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It’s a secret society of deeply profound feelings yin and yang the heart chakra and breasts that create feminine goddess energy! Thank you women of abf!
Mr. French. I feel like there are about four confessions tucked into this one.
But, I think the part that interests me most is that you came here because something ended, and somewhere along the way you realized there was a piece of that relationship you genuinely missed independent of the person. That’s actually a pretty interesting distinction.
And I get why the consistency matters to you. There’s a big difference between occasionally getting to experience something you love and having it woven naturally into your everyday life with someone you trust. I suspect that’s probably what you’re missing more than simply the act itself.
I also really like what you said about continuing to come back because you still had some growing to do. I think a lot of us probably arrived here looking for one very specific thing and then accidentally started learning shit about ourselves.😳
Although I am DYING at the thought of some poor background investigator finding your digital footprint and discovering you’ve been over here publicly discussing how much you’d like to taste me 😳. Sir. I cannot be responsible for your employment prospects 🤭😎😘!
And I do understand what you mean about wanting some of these connections to exist beyond a screen. There’s something lovely about finding people you can be completely yourself around without having to explain why this particular form of intimacy matters to you.
You may have come here looking for milk, Mr. French, but I suspect you stayed for something considerably bigger than boobs.
Which is really saying something around here. 🤓😘
@shiva 🫶🏻
Well damn. I thought we were just hanging around talking about boobs and apparently we’ve formed a secret society of feminine goddess energy.
I’m in! Do we get robes? 😎
I love the way you talk to me.
Its very rare I meet someone who can help me figure out what I feeling better than me. You are truly rare and exquisite.
If my life is missing a piece of the puzzle or several you definitely have one with you 😘 Or a couple 🥴
I am here to meet fellow enthusiasts of
our interest(s) and desire(s).I have found and enjoy the opportunity to discuss with others what we share.
It also and opportunity to learn and expand horizons.However the search continues without doubt that “the one” will be found
here.That’s my story and I am sucking to it.
So this has been on my mind a lot these past couple days!
I was invited to this website courteous of our lovely Lola, Which I’m so grateful for! I joined this website cause I was genuinely curious about the lifestyle and I loved the idea of ANR/ABF! Like it could be either the comfort side of it, the sensual side of it, or even a mix of both! I loved the idea of the intimacy and the connection it can create! And you could go so many ways!
And so I came here seeking that intimacy and connection I so desired! So far, I haven’t had a chance to meet someone yet, but in the process I also found something amazing. I found a community that understands me and accepts me as who I am! I loved that I got to talk to people from all over the world, listen to their stories and their experiences. And I wasn’t expecting to fall in love with the community like that.
Like I could genuinely have be having a bad day, and I could come on here, and y’all cheer me up! And I met some of the coolest people with the kindest and unique personalities! In a way, it’s made me more confident in myself as a person.
I also love the banter and the conversations, and the innuendos and all that! It’s so much fun 😂 plus the spicy chat is a nice plus, if I might add haha.
But overall, I truly am grateful for this website and what yall have done for me in this short time I’ve been on here. And I hope to be on here for a long time and meet more people and make more friendships, and hopefully make a connection! I hope that answered your question Lola! 😊
Well Bob, “that’s my story and I am sucking to it” may be one of the more appropriate personal mottos I’ve seen around here.🤓
I like the optimism too. Keep expanding those horizons and enjoying yourself along the way. Who knows where “the one” might be hiding. 😉
Well, I’m taking full credit for bringing you here. One of my better decisions, clearly.😘
But I really am glad I did. You’re one of those people who makes a room better just by being in it, even when the “room” is an internet chat full of boobs, innuendo and people behaving questionably. 😜
And I hope you know the affection goes both ways. You’ve become one of MY people here too. I look for you, I notice when you’re not around, and you’ve made this place more fun for me simply by being part of it. ❤️
I have no idea when the connection you originally came looking for is going to find you, but she better be damn cool. We’ve gotten rather fond of you around here and our standards are now involved. 🤓😘
Aww you’re so sweet! 🥰🫶 I’m glad I could make it more fun for you and you’ve absolutely become a great friend to me!
I stumbled on this website and couldn’t believe my eyes. Adult breastfeeding is a thing that women want to do? This is awesome. I happily signed up and started messaging the few women I could find that were within distance of me. I wasn’t having much luck. I have 2 challenges here. The first one is the distance. We all seem to live so far away from each other. Alot of us, myself included, lead busy lives and we don’t have the time to drive 1 or 2 hours for nursing, and then drive 1 or 2 hours back home. Ideally, I would only want to drive 30 minutes or less. My second challenge is that I am a guy and we are massively outnumbered by the women. I live in Georgia. On this site, in the state of Georgia, there are 332 men and 50 women. But I stay on this site because even though I hardly ever meet a woman in person for nursing, I feel like this site is one of the best out there. The reason we are having all these issues with adult breastfeeding is because it is still taboo. We don’t talk about abf with friends or in public. We don’t do abf in public. We hide behind closed doors and websites like this because it is still taboo. It’s all of this hiding that causes these problems. If abf ever become normal and accepted by society, it would be a lot easier. Anyway, thanks for letting me vent. Have a nice day.
I came here seeking ABF and ultimately an ANR. I stay for the people. Haven’t found my person yet, but I have prospects and hold out hope that she and I will continue to be active on here if an ANR develops
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Vent away, Doyle. You actually touched on something I hadn’t really considered when I wrote this.
I wonder how much the secrecy around ABF shapes the community itself. Most of us probably aren’t wandering around announcing this particular interest at the neighborhood barbecue, so finding other people who understand it almost requires some kind of designated little corner of the world like this one.
And there’s a funny contradiction in that. The taboo makes finding each other harder, but it may also be part of why the connections here can feel so significant. There’s something pretty powerful about being able to say, “Yep, this is something I’m into,” and nobody bats an eye.
I don’t know whether ABF will ever become completely normalized, but I do think every time people can talk about it without shame or embarrassment, it becomes a little less mysterious.
And apparently a little more geographically frustrating. Good luck with your search! 🫶🏻
Ohhhh, we have prospects now, Bill??
Look at you quietly making moves while the rest of us are over here confessing our secrets.
I’m gonna need you to circle back when one of these “prospects” becomes a situation!
And yes, you both still have to hang out with us. Finding your person does not excuse you from the nonsense.😜
Well… If I’m making a confession, what brought me here and what keeps me here are two very different things.
About ten years ago, the loneliness in my life became too heavy to ignore. I started looking online for something magical with someone who could see, talk to and understand me. I was searching for a genuine friendship with an emotional connection and someone who could remind me that I was still a person with thoughts, feelings and needs rather than just a background character in my own life.
During that search, I stumbled across discussions about ABF and a type of nurturing and affectionate connection that I’d never encountered before. The more I read, the more something about it spoke to me. It wasn’t the stereotypes people often assume. It was the comfort, closeness, emotional warmth and the feeling of being genuinely cared for.
I spent years quietly learning about it and trying to understand why it resonated so deeply. Ironically, I’ve not really found that close friend that I originally set out to look for, but what I found instead was ABF Heaven, a place where a community thrived and there were people who understood the emotional needs of others and who recognised that there was a deeply human side to all of this that went far beyond the obvious surface impressions.
In many ways, that’s what kept me here.
The conversations, humour, flirtation and the occasional mischief are all part of the community’s charm but what surprised me most was discovering people with incredible empathy, insight and kindness. People who understand loneliness. People who understand connection. People who know what it’s like to carry parts of themselves quietly because there’s nowhere else they feel able to share them.
So my confession is that while my original journey stalled, I started a completely different journey that I was never expecting and has brought me together with some very amazing people.
This new journey became about exploring a deeper part of myself and not out of rebellion, fantasy or a desire to escape my life, but because I felt the need to feel human again, feel seen rather than invisible and feel wanted rather than merely discarded.
Did I find what I came looking for, not exactly but I did find understanding, perspective, pieces of myself that I’d neglected for years and I’ve met people who reminded me that genuine connection can appear in the most unexpected places.
I arrived here searching for one person who might understand me and I stayed because I discovered a community that often does. ❤️
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