🤫 Confession Time 🤭

[Lola May]

I have a confession to make.

I’ve been here about five months, and while ABF is definitely what brought me here, I’m realizing it’s not really why I stay.🤭

I stay because I genuinely enjoy this place.

I love the banter, the flirting, the innuendo and the conversations that start out completely innocent and somehow end up three counties away from where they began. I like getting to be a little mischievous, a little daring and occasionally inappropriate. I like talking openly about things most of us probably aren’t discussing over coffee with the neighbors.

But mostly, I like the people.

And THAT surprised me.

I’ve made actual friends here. There are people I look forward to talking to, people who make me laugh, people I’ve learned from and people I notice when they haven’t been around. Five months ago, I never expected to give a damn whether a bunch of internet strangers showed up for chat, and yet here we are. 🫶🏻

So that’s my confession.

Now I’m curious about yours.

What brought you here, and what keeps you here?

Did you find what you came looking for? Do you still even want the same thing you wanted when you joined? And what have you found here that you never expected?

Friendship? Sex? Connection? Feelings? Confidence? A place to explore a side of yourself you don’t get to show very often?

Or are you still steadfastly here for the boobs?😎 No shame in staying on mission.

No names necessary. We’re confessing, not causing domestic incidents.

So…what’s your confession? 🤫

[Foster Love 💕]

I like this community and gives me opportunity to explore with like minded people, for all reasons!!

[Nick]

This has been great community from the beginning. Michael has put in lot of efforts to keep this place active and cordial.

[ComeCMe4😘😘😘]

I probably came to this community for similar reasons than everyone else, to explore what I have always felt I was missing in my life, something that I truly believe that I would love.

My confession is this…I have now met a few people irl from this site…every single one of the women was exceptionally nice and patient. But I no kidding have chickened out every time after we meet to actually nurse/suckle/feed because of my own previous trauma that I am trying to work through. It is extremely embarrassing and I also feel that I wasted each of their time. But they have been super supportive and this is why I love this community.

Maybe not appropriate or the right sentiment for this forum post but I thought I would share

[David]

@lolamayi I’m glad you’re here and an active member of the community. I like it here too for the same reasons

[Lola May]

@anroc 😘

Oh, this is absolutely appropriate. ❤️ Honestly, THIS is exactly the kind of confession I was hoping this post might make room for.

And I really hope you can stop thinking of those experiences as you “chickening out.” You got as far as you were comfortable going, and when you weren’t ready to go further, you listened to yourself. There’s no shame in that.

I also don’t think you wasted those women’s time. They got to meet you. You got to meet them. And from what you’ve said, they responded with patience and kindness rather than making you feel badly for not being ready. That actually says something pretty lovely about the connections you made here.

Maybe the thing you found wasn’t what you originally came looking for. At least not yet.

Maybe you found people who made it safe enough for you to keep trying.

That seems pretty damn significant to me.

And thank you for trusting us enough to share something this personal. 😘🫶🏻

[Lola May]

@njtitman 🤓

I’m glad you’re here too, David. It’s funny how quickly a bunch of internet strangers can start feeling like your people. I definitely didn’t see that part coming.😘

[Lola May]

@nickny 🤗

Michael really has built something special here. I think “cordial” is actually a big part of why it works too. For a site centered around something this intimate, it could have gone VERY differently!

[Lola May]

@krbreast 🤓

That “for all reasons” is doing a LOT of work there, Foster. I feel like there might be a confession hiding behind those exclamation points.😎

[Foster Love 💕]

😂 😂
I love to talk to people and know about them, learn from them, help them etc.. when I meet people here,nursing is not the primary agenda. I just go and meet them and if things organically grows and we both enjoys is a bliss.

[Fountaindancer]

This is a safe space to feel without apologies. Trauma is real. ANR was a game changer in dealing with my own trauma. ANR opened the door for me to enjoy intimacy again without PTSD flashbacks. I feel liberated and empowered. I hope one day you will be able to experience this sacred intimacy.

[Lola May]

@fountaindancer 🫶🏻

This really touched me. And I keep coming back to your words “without apologies.”

There’s something so powerful about getting to reclaim your own body and decide for yourself what intimacy, pleasure, safety and connection look like now.

And I love that ANR became that for you. Not a way back to exactly who you were before, but a doorway into something new. Something that let you experience intimacy differently and discover that your past didn’t get to have the final word.

Maybe that’s the part I find so hopeful. We’re allowed to keep discovering ourselves. We’re allowed to change. We’re allowed to find things we never expected that make us feel more free, more connected and more at home in our own bodies.

Thank you for sharing something this personal. I’m genuinely so happy for you. And I’m really fucking glad trauma didn’t get the last word!! 🫶🏻

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