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I have a confession to make.
I’ve been here about five months, and while ABF is definitely what brought me here, I’m realizing it’s not really why I stay.🤭
I stay because I genuinely enjoy this place.
I love the banter, the flirting, the innuendo and the conversations that start out completely innocent and somehow end up three counties away from where they began. I like getting to be a little mischievous, a little daring and occasionally inappropriate. I like talking openly about things most of us probably aren’t discussing over coffee with the neighbors.
But mostly, I like the people.
And THAT surprised me.
I’ve made actual friends here. There are people I look forward to talking to, people who make me laugh, people I’ve learned from and people I notice when they haven’t been around. Five months ago, I never expected to give a damn whether a bunch of internet strangers showed up for chat, and yet here we are. 🫶🏻
So that’s my confession.
Now I’m curious about yours.
What brought you here, and what keeps you here?
Did you find what you came looking for? Do you still even want the same thing you wanted when you joined? And what have you found here that you never expected?
Friendship? Sex? Connection? Feelings? Confidence? A place to explore a side of yourself you don’t get to show very often?
Or are you still steadfastly here for the boobs?😎 No shame in staying on mission.
No names necessary. We’re confessing, not causing domestic incidents.
So…what’s your confession? 🤫
I like this community and gives me opportunity to explore with like minded people, for all reasons!!
This has been great community from the beginning. Michael has put in lot of efforts to keep this place active and cordial.
I probably came to this community for similar reasons than everyone else, to explore what I have always felt I was missing in my life, something that I truly believe that I would love.
My confession is this…I have now met a few people irl from this site…every single one of the women was exceptionally nice and patient. But I no kidding have chickened out every time after we meet to actually nurse/suckle/feed because of my own previous trauma that I am trying to work through. It is extremely embarrassing and I also feel that I wasted each of their time. But they have been super supportive and this is why I love this community.
Maybe not appropriate or the right sentiment for this forum post but I thought I would share
@lolamayi I’m glad you’re here and an active member of the community. I like it here too for the same reasons
@anroc 😘
Oh, this is absolutely appropriate. ❤️ Honestly, THIS is exactly the kind of confession I was hoping this post might make room for.
And I really hope you can stop thinking of those experiences as you “chickening out.” You got as far as you were comfortable going, and when you weren’t ready to go further, you listened to yourself. There’s no shame in that.
I also don’t think you wasted those women’s time. They got to meet you. You got to meet them. And from what you’ve said, they responded with patience and kindness rather than making you feel badly for not being ready. That actually says something pretty lovely about the connections you made here.
Maybe the thing you found wasn’t what you originally came looking for. At least not yet.
Maybe you found people who made it safe enough for you to keep trying.
That seems pretty damn significant to me.
And thank you for trusting us enough to share something this personal. 😘🫶🏻
I’m glad you’re here too, David. It’s funny how quickly a bunch of internet strangers can start feeling like your people. I definitely didn’t see that part coming.😘
@nickny 🤗
Michael really has built something special here. I think “cordial” is actually a big part of why it works too. For a site centered around something this intimate, it could have gone VERY differently!
That “for all reasons” is doing a LOT of work there, Foster. I feel like there might be a confession hiding behind those exclamation points.😎
😂 😂
I love to talk to people and know about them, learn from them, help them etc.. when I meet people here,nursing is not the primary agenda. I just go and meet them and if things organically grows and we both enjoys is a bliss.This is a safe space to feel without apologies. Trauma is real. ANR was a game changer in dealing with my own trauma. ANR opened the door for me to enjoy intimacy again without PTSD flashbacks. I feel liberated and empowered. I hope one day you will be able to experience this sacred intimacy.
This really touched me. And I keep coming back to your words “without apologies.”
There’s something so powerful about getting to reclaim your own body and decide for yourself what intimacy, pleasure, safety and connection look like now.
And I love that ANR became that for you. Not a way back to exactly who you were before, but a doorway into something new. Something that let you experience intimacy differently and discover that your past didn’t get to have the final word.
Maybe that’s the part I find so hopeful. We’re allowed to keep discovering ourselves. We’re allowed to change. We’re allowed to find things we never expected that make us feel more free, more connected and more at home in our own bodies.
Thank you for sharing something this personal. I’m genuinely so happy for you. And I’m really fucking glad trauma didn’t get the last word!! 🫶🏻
I came across this site by accident. After being marooned here during the four years war this former engineering officer doffed his red tunic and tried to assimilate with the local denizens.
I came looking for a way off planet. This definitely wasn’t the Earth I was raised on. In trying to fit in with the populace I found out that ABF was an actual thing. An activity worthy of study, then one of practice.
Once experienced, it was something that was missing from my life. Though I still long for the lofty shoals of stardust and the actinic light of Orion’s Belt the memories of my former life fade with the meeting of past breast friends, current breasties and those I hope to meet in the future. Adult breastfeeding is the life for me,
Live long and prosper.
LtCdr Grog, formerly of the USS Bohica signing off.End of transmission.
@grogman 😎
Grog! Of COURSE your confession involves being marooned on Earth, abandoning Starfleet and eventually discovering that the thing missing from your life was breastfeeding. 😂
But I actually love that you found ABF completely by accident. You weren’t searching for it, didn’t even know it was a thing, and somewhere between “well this is interesting” and actually experiencing it, you discovered something about yourself.
I think there’s something really cool about that.
We spend so much time thinking we’re supposed to already know who we are and what we like, when apparently we can still stumble across entirely new parts of ourselves in the strangest damn places.
Including, evidently, while awaiting rescue from another planet.
And now you’ve got past breast friends, current breasties AND prospective future breasties, so I’m beginning to suspect you’re not actually trying that hard to get home anymore, Commander. 🤭😂❤️
Live long and suckle. 🖖
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What brought me here is the void that was left when I broke off my engagement. I realized I didn’t miss the person as much after I found out what she was doing. So I made it my mission to find out how I can keep breastfeeding. The part that sucks (no pun) is i have yet to find a consistent serious partner that I could enjoy it with daily. Maybe that’s part of the reason why I am always so stressed.
I did leave the site a couple times but I kept coming back because I thought I still had some growing to do, personal hardships, and occasionally I apply for jobs that do background checks so I always thought they would see me on here commenting on your post talking about how great it would be to taste you 😘
Also the community is cool I wish I knew more people from here that I could develop IRL connections because elets face it even if we dont have pur person to feed from how nice would it be to have a friend or neighbor we could suckle with
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