WA State – why so dead here

I think the WA area is probably one of our more successful areas in the country. I see people there looking and finding fairly often and well there. I guess there could be other places that may be as good. The more densely populated areas will always be more fruitful (eg LA, NYC, TX, & KC) but there are many worse places to be (OK, NE, AR).

But I think the people there know it is a “tough neighborhood” and they need to be as goal-focused as possible because it is that important. And so, they may venture outside their town more and have less rock hard, immovable standards. And for the ones that love their land but want someone TO LOVE IT WITH even more they find a way for both. Every one here has to calculate and engineer a plan that works. Even the people in LA, NYC, TX, and KC have a totally different set of obstacles that constantly thwart their efforts. But they overcome finally. And you will too, my friend. You just have to get more creative and less whiny about it. And just that change alone will attract the women that you can grow old with.

I wish only the best for you. So get creative. It may not be easier, but it is much more rewarding.