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Guy or girl, regardless of the suckler’s sex, do you prefer someone older or younger to nurture on your precious tits?
I prefer someone who is interested in me as a whole person, treats me like they would want their sister courted, and is interested in creating a substantial relationship. Respect, kindness, and courtesy are much more important than age.
Older. Ive already been through being treated like a spectacle.
Not a lady, but my observation for the past 10 years of my life is that older men are preferable for most in all aspects, even outside of ABF.
I’m 29 and I won’t be worthy of experiencing any ABF for the next 15 years in the eyes of most women. By then, I will be older than the average age of women that are seeking ABF, and will have better luck, I hope and pray that it will be easier to find someone having waited to grow old. It’s not easy being a younger man who is into ABF. Therefore, you must be a minimum of 40 years old as a man to have “good chances.” In my 29 years of life as a man, being young has little value for men in most scenarios, unfortunately. The perspective is biased against younger men for connection with women in the modern age.
Just my 2 cents…
I’m 48, I prefer someone I can relate to. That does mean do you know who Carter was? Lol
Mature, compassionate, humorous, responsible, honest. And understands what ANR actually is.Like most of the above, I prefer an ANR with a man that values genuine connection and wants to suckle as much as I want to be suckled. Many a time there’s men on here, reddit, feels, etc. that are just in the anr/abf space for quick satisfaction and not for the actual connection.
I’m 28 but have always dated older than me previous. My age preference is 25-38, so I do prefer an age gap but nothing too extreme!
For me, I’d say older. I prefer older men in general. The man that brought out my first longing to breastfeed an adult was 64 to my 47, there was not any physical intimacy, it was purely emotional and I kinda fell in love with him. Depth and emotional sensitivity are of utmost importance. Saying that, the man I had my first encounter with was 46. I may be willing to be with someone 35 or above, if they appeal to me on many levels; emotional, spiritual, intellectual and of course, shallow as it may seem, physical…
However, physical isn’t a particular body type, the other levels have a large bearing on someone’s physical attractiveness…
like most above, older would be my preference, however the most important thing is emotional connection. I’ve only been here a few days; some of the messages you receive as a female here are terrifying! they are also massively objectifying and that’s a real turn-off. I won’t dismiss someone based purely on age, but if you’re 25 and your first message reads ‘how big are your tits? can you meet on Saturday? .., then I’m done!
Ooh, since posting I’ve actually been in contact with a 36 year old! He used the words, meditative, exciting and intense to describe abf, my attention was caught. His profile was well-considered and mature too. Very early days yet though…
I see a preference for older men overall. I wonder why that is because I myself prefer to nurture from an older woman’s tits. It would be interesting to unravel where this preference for an older partner stems from.
While I won’t rob the cradle or date a skeleton, it does not matter to me. That is like asking do you prefer a small or large penis. You don’t care. You just know it works, what you have. Or it doesn’t. It’s mindset and skill. Connection.
Age is a number, to me this is about the emotional connection, not sexual. I have had a suckler who was 30 to my 50. It’s about keeping it in its place, tenderness, care, connection of a comforting nature. If that is what the suckler wants, then we are on the same wavelength and it will be a beautiful experience for both of us.
My preference is older. I gave one young guy a chance, against my better judgement, and it turned out to be the worst experience. So now I won’t go against my gut feeling in this matter. That being said, nor every older guy is emotionally mature or has his ego in check to make a relationship even feasible.
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