Positive reviews of suckle partners?

[Uncle Andy]

I agree with you Rumina, and as a side note, should it go both ways? Shall we ” Rate” the women?

[Rumina]

@infinitesuckles I understand all the good intentions and I am all for safety. People on here know that. Safety means your ‘performance’ isnt openly discussed. We would not want a rating system for breasts now would we?

Safery for men is as important as safety for women. Yes, some men spoil a lot for all the decent guys. It doesnt mean that men should be rated. Its not a competition nor a restaurant.

Also: nursong can be vulnerable for both and I love it when a nursingpartner is not afraid of that and also opens up. Chances are that wont happen when you can expect a review the next day. I wouldnt.

So no. Intentions may be good and i do believe that, but i dont think it will be used well.

[milkywhey]

@dairydaisy As I explained multiple times, the review would not be required and does not have to be posted to their profile unless they WANT it there. It would be under the reviewee’s total control. There are several sites that use this feature successfully, already.

[Rumina]

I stand with Lola. I hear the problem, dont thonk reviews are the solutution. Sorry when i sounded overly negative. Not my intention but i do feel this strongly. As a teacher i saw what so called ratings can do to people. As a student in uni at a certain point it was clear the boys made banga lists of bed performances of their female classmates. I remember how the girls felt. So no i am no fan of public feedback on individuals in groups. It simply is not safe. Not for women, not for men. So we want the same: safety for all, but we differ on how to adress it. I like a discussion on safety though!

[david]

Interesting. Its like comparing someone’s cooking. We have an attraction bias. It is real look it up. People we find attractive we give more leeway because we feel they deserve it versus those that we dont. Example being. If 2 women had the same “experience ” from a man. If One liked him more for whatever reason. They may review it in a better favor

[milkywhey]

I wasn’t even talking about attraction at all. I had a really good private chat with Rumina about it and we came to an understanding. Essentially, it would be a way to verify that a suckler was safe and respected boundaries. If I saw that another woman had met someone in person and verified they were a safe person, it would make me feel comfortable to meet them. That is all I was getting at.

[Rumina]

I second that Milkywhey. We had a very good private conversation. Thank you for that.

[Christy]

I have often thought this, I wish there was a way for us women to somehow verify the safety of the men in this community. I agree it shouldn’t be twisted or used as a popularity contest. But I think all of us women have been on dates where we felt unsafe, and conversely, we have all dated men who we immediately knew were safe. Maybe there wasn’t a relationship there because of chemistry or timing or whatever the reason that it didnt work out, but in the time we spent together we were sure that that man would not hurt us or any other woman. In an ideal world, we could vouch for him in some way.

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