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I’m new to this but am looking to explore. I am interested to know how this feels emotionally, mentally and physically to a man. In particular if it’s dry suckling.
I’m trying to understand past the sexual side for men (I assume that is a big driver but if it’s not share about that too)Hello Florence,
Welcome to ABF Heaven, it’s a great resource. I’ve been into dry suckling (and breast play), on and off for many years now.I find suckling warm, intimate and comforting, two people sharing something unique. Suckling takes me to another place where I can relax and just focus on the suckling and time slips away, I guess I’m a hopeless case, I just love breasts and nipples! It is something I think about often and it’s something I seriously miss when I’m not seeing a lady to suckle. Suckling does not have to be sexual, yes I can find it extremely erotic as ladies can but it is the suckling that is important, if any more than that happens and both parties are fine with that then great …but… it should not never be automtically be expected, the ladies wishes should always come first and foremost.
Hope that helps, Bazz.Good morning Florence. Bazz brings up a lot of good points. Breastfeeding is a very relaxing activity. Time seems to stand still. Wet nursing has a more nuturing aspect for me. Dry nursing seems to have more of an erotic component. Recently, I told my friend Zosia that abf is primary and everything else is icing on the cake. I love icing. So does Zosia.🤗😘😁
Welcome to ABF, and I agree with all above. There’s nothing else like it, and it can definitely bring out different feelings and sensations for different partners, men and women. I think the communication part is the most important first step . . meet for coffee or lunch and talk about it. What do you each like and look forward to most? Are your nipples and breasts sensitive to touch and what type of touch? Does it arouse you sexually and how do you want to handle that? The more you can discuss, the less tense or awkward it’ll be during the first session, I’ve found, though marvelous things will still happen that you didn’t expect.
Personally, I’ve never had an issue with dry vs milky suckling. The warmth, intimacy and closeness of breastfeeding . . the feel of her breasts in my hands and the warmth of her body that close . . the sensation of her nipples in my mouth, and the gentle tug of a proper latch . . the way both people relax and meld together . . . these are all marvelous aspects of the experience and the same regardless of lactation. There’s no question that her milk adds to the experience for both parties, but for me . . and many men . . it’s equally wonderful either way ❤️Here’s more of a reality view. Virtually all men love breasts and nipples and many love sucking on nipples. It is very few men who truly enjoy/appreciate suckling, dry of wet. Suckling IS work! (I believe for many men – and women – ABF is merely a pretext/excuse for sex. I am NOT saying sex, associated with ABF, is wrong if mutually agreed upon.)
If you fall in the minority of men that love suckling then what the men have written above is true!
Hi Florence
My answer I think is more in line with Jim’s response… Think of that spark, that connection you feel the first time you hold someone’s hand. Suckling is that kind of feeling, but that spark is more like lightning. Every time. Wet or dry, my partner is letting her barriers down and offering me something — her “self” — at a primal level. For me, this includes a connection to the divine feminine and a spiritual, sacred component simultaneous with the very personal connection with a partner, irrespective of whether suckling leads to something more sexual or not. I wish you all the best on your journey and hope you find someone worthy of you and what you offer. Bright blessings
Hi florence in the past any breast play was sexual with my friends , im new to abf/anr also and havnt had the chance to try it without leading to sex so i cant add much but the replys from members above have some good info – hope you find someone for some intimate sessions
@sarahsbf I really value what you’ve written here. This is what I wanted to know
@Cut Tan it won’t let me tag you but I value you’re reply as well thank you
I appreciate all of you lovely men who have replied to my post.
Can we confirm the feelings eg closeness, intimacy, deep bonding, etc
Hi,
For me it’s a completely different experience to penetrative sex. It does have an erotic element, but the intimacy and connection are many, many times more than penetrative sex.
I find wet nursing very nurturing. I have no desire to find a mother or be a baby, but the component of wet nursing which is unique is (obviously) the milk. It feels very special that the woman has grown the milk and chosen to share it with me. That feels very special. The bond is very, very special and powerful.
I suckled one lactating woman from late afternoon, through the evening, sporadically through the night and when we woke. I would have continued but we both had to go.
The bond is out of this world.
It’s also incredibly soothing and relaxing. Time seems to vanish.
Dry sucking; it’s mostly the same but isn’t quite an intense an experience as wet nursing, although is still very enjoyable.
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