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A lot of times men (after I ask for a picture of their face) ask me to send them my picture first. Like, why is that even? I asked first. Then the request fir “more” pictures, each i send is same kind now not showing my breasts, then it continues with requests to see my pictures. It gets tiring. I know what they wanna see and it irritates me.If someone doesn’t like me as a person, what is my picture gonna do anyway? Not gonna date that person, why show them my pictures then? I don’t understand that.
Do you find that men tend to send you irritating DMs specifically when you tell them not to? Like if your profile says, “Don’t ask me my cup size,” it’s like boom: now it’s the first thing they ask.
Since you’re dealing with children, and children tend to act that way, I completely believe you when you say that’s the case. Talking with children is super frustrating, they don’ t listen at all. They make a point not to!
Another thing men do is they get you super into it, and they figure out what you like and you get you to fall for it, and once you’re fully emotionally engaged like day 3 or 5 he tells you he’s married. And it’s like omg, like, he was love bombing and doing all this stuff and it’s like he’s married.
Curiosity overtakes sometimes when getting to know someone, on an abf site focusing on breasts, I can see why the question is asked.
I can also get why it’s rude to ask such a question without knowing the person.
Good manners are essential.
Thanks for raising the point Kat.It’s the wanting pics, but not willing to actually meet in person… It’s tiring! And me saying “no nudes”, but guys repeatedly asking for “topless” are the same thing!!! Why guys don’t get that, I’ll never understand. If I was only about my breasts, they would be my profile pic… And NO, you don’t need to see my breasts prior to meeting me to “get to know them”… SO– frustrating! Watch porn as that’s all you want!
Dont ask sizes. You wouldnt do it when meeting someone in the street. Why treat us differently? Respect isnt too much to ask.
Pic collectors can go somewhere else.So on point, @milkme22 !!!
I am gonna add the extra clause in my profile, though, at this moment only women in a country can contact me, so I wasn’t particularly maybe worried about it after I deleted my previous profile description.
I don’t honestly know anymore how people possibly can even meet another person on here to make it to a LTR when so very few got there. Definitely sex talk gets to nowhere. Men on here ditching me last moment or meeting me for 1 date and expecting breast play and sex. What is that even? I yet need to meet someone that is interesting enough and has life together and can be trusted. Abf/anr can come after relationship is established, why rushing into bonding with someone without knowing if you love them first? I will never get that.
Also, for those men only seeking breast relationship – be clear because many of us are here only to find a partner (ROMANTIC ONE) aka you date them as in a normal relationship. Also, i think reading our profiles should be good enough to know if we wanna talk to you in a first place.
To those men only “trying it before buying it” strategy – well, kinda sounds you don’t like putting any effort into any dating and want to get some. I really hope women get more picky about it.
And why do I know all this? Because I have met all kinds of men on here, some met in person. The reason I am not with any of them is because they had things to hide.
And I am tired of showing my breasts like that should be a convincing factor for someone to even talk to me. I am not interested in that. I do have nice breasts but the only person touching them is me.
Oh well, I guess, at least I know what I want in life! I am perfectly happy and fine with where I am in life. I hope all ladies on here, too, or eventually they do too. I accepted the fact I won’t meet anyone on here based on the latest interactions, but I still would like to stay here for the friendships I made. There are very few of you on here that I truly love for how amazing you are, and you know who you are (not pointing out names). If you can end up with 1 friend by interacting on this website, you are lucky! I feel lucky! 🙂 Women supporting each other is one of the most important things in life!
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