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A lot of times men (after I ask for a picture of their face) ask me to send them my picture first. Like, why is that even? I asked first. Then the request fir “more” pictures, each i send is same kind now not showing my breasts, then it continues with requests to see my pictures. It gets tiring. I know what they wanna see and it irritates me.If someone doesn’t like me as a person, what is my picture gonna do anyway? Not gonna date that person, why show them my pictures then? I don’t understand that.
Do you find that men tend to send you irritating DMs specifically when you tell them not to? Like if your profile says, “Don’t ask me my cup size,” it’s like boom: now it’s the first thing they ask.
Since you’re dealing with children, and children tend to act that way, I completely believe you when you say that’s the case. Talking with children is super frustrating, they don’ t listen at all. They make a point not to!
Another thing men do is they get you super into it, and they figure out what you like and you get you to fall for it, and once you’re fully emotionally engaged like day 3 or 5 he tells you he’s married. And it’s like omg, like, he was love bombing and doing all this stuff and it’s like he’s married.
Curiosity overtakes sometimes when getting to know someone, on an abf site focusing on breasts, I can see why the question is asked.
I can also get why it’s rude to ask such a question without knowing the person.
Good manners are essential.
Thanks for raising the point Kat.It’s the wanting pics, but not willing to actually meet in person… It’s tiring! And me saying “no nudes”, but guys repeatedly asking for “topless” are the same thing!!! Why guys don’t get that, I’ll never understand. If I was only about my breasts, they would be my profile pic… And NO, you don’t need to see my breasts prior to meeting me to “get to know them”… SO– frustrating! Watch porn as that’s all you want!
Dont ask sizes. You wouldnt do it when meeting someone in the street. Why treat us differently? Respect isnt too much to ask.
Pic collectors can go somewhere else.So on point, @milkme22 !!!
I am gonna add the extra clause in my profile, though, at this moment only women in a country can contact me, so I wasn’t particularly maybe worried about it after I deleted my previous profile description.
I don’t honestly know anymore how people possibly can even meet another person on here to make it to a LTR when so very few got there. Definitely sex talk gets to nowhere. Men on here ditching me last moment or meeting me for 1 date and expecting breast play and sex. What is that even? I yet need to meet someone that is interesting enough and has life together and can be trusted. Abf/anr can come after relationship is established, why rushing into bonding with someone without knowing if you love them first? I will never get that.
Also, for those men only seeking breast relationship – be clear because many of us are here only to find a partner (ROMANTIC ONE) aka you date them as in a normal relationship. Also, i think reading our profiles should be good enough to know if we wanna talk to you in a first place.
To those men only “trying it before buying it” strategy – well, kinda sounds you don’t like putting any effort into any dating and want to get some. I really hope women get more picky about it.
And why do I know all this? Because I have met all kinds of men on here, some met in person. The reason I am not with any of them is because they had things to hide.
And I am tired of showing my breasts like that should be a convincing factor for someone to even talk to me. I am not interested in that. I do have nice breasts but the only person touching them is me.
Oh well, I guess, at least I know what I want in life! I am perfectly happy and fine with where I am in life. I hope all ladies on here, too, or eventually they do too. I accepted the fact I won’t meet anyone on here based on the latest interactions, but I still would like to stay here for the friendships I made. There are very few of you on here that I truly love for how amazing you are, and you know who you are (not pointing out names). If you can end up with 1 friend by interacting on this website, you are lucky! I feel lucky! 🙂 Women supporting each other is one of the most important things in life!
Another thing men do: you’ll say in your profile, “read my profile before messaging me” and then it’s like – they don’t read your profile they just message you.
Has that ever happened before, you could serve cheese with that.
I’m so glad this is the only community on the internet that really understands any of this.
Woman ask for penis an face pics as well they definitely have to me. I personally never have asked or seen a vagina photo on this website as of leaving this forum post or i dont ever message any females that are looking for females only. I mean this is a breastfeeding website to meet up with people in real life to start a nursing relationship so I don’t get how woman aren’t willing to show a breast even when talking to them for awhile, if we’re talking about breastfeeding it really helps to know what that persons breasts actually looks like or you can’t really get a bonding vibe connection going. You mentioned to go look up random boobs online but that’s not the same if your actually trying to start a relationship with someone that’s like your spouse or partner looking up random internet boobs on his phone while breastfeeding with you instead of enjoying yours that is how you should be interacting with people on here in my opinion to finally find someone you can connect with takes lots of failed communications with other people before finding people that are a compatible match for yourself. “but what kind of relationship is there if you must convince a man that you are worthy talking to based on size of your breasts?” I put in quotations what you asked in your posting because its the opposite for woman the majority of them ask for photos and then immediately want to know your salary an if its under $100k they ignore you so sadly woman are just as toxic as the men your complaining about asking to see breasts on a breastfeeding website. Yes I agree with you that asking right away to see tits or bra size without saying hello and getting a conversation going first is pretty rude but even after all that I still talk to a lot of woman that say they will only show in person which makes no sense because the point of this website is to create a relationship to get comfortable with each other before meeting them in person since this kink of breastfeeding is not normal, its definitely not a normal thing or we all wouldn’t be online trying to find it we would simply go out in public to ask people out to breastfeed or go to a normal dating site with millions of people but whomever you meet in public or in a normal dating site will 99.9% be not into breastfeeding, sure you might convince them to try it after being in a relationship with them over many months an they might be willing to try but if they don’t like it yalls relationship built on the foundation of hoping the person you met in public is into breastfeeding probably won’t last very long.
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