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@cindyyloohoo, those kind of experiences makes it hard for people who really want to meet and see how they connect.
Don’t know if this will be any comfort at all, but you don’t know what you’ve been saved from, my friend. Therebare just as many married women hiding their status as men. And that is a very bad scene if you get discovered by a very jealous husband. It would make leaving the site FOREVER (if not this world) much easier. My first thought was that this is probably what happened in your case. It isn’t easy to think these possibilities are possible but they are. So just imagine that you dodged a very deadly bullet (figuratively or in reality). The advice the ladies gave about using the FREE video chat here on the site makes perfect sense. I have never used it before but I am going to look into it now.
So don’t get down about it at all. This is how the game is played. But when it works… it really works well. So look forward to that, friend. You sound like a good man, and there are many women here looking for you. This is just an annoying blip on your screen. But when everything aligns and it happens… who has the biggest grin on his face? YOU DOOOOOOOO!!!
I had someone delete their profile on here that I liked as well, we were both talking to others as everyone should as other options until your in a real relationship with them but our last few messages I asked if she wanted to text and then she replied back lets use a certain app messenger so I was like ok and downloaded her recommendation but before she read my reply she then went offline for 19 days and then she logged in just to immediately delete her profile and im still sad about it we both liked each other an were both lonely an wanted to start a real life breastfeeding relationship an move in together after awhile from talking so ya i feel your pain bro
Really sorry to hear what happened to you and hope you’re okay now. I don’t think you did anything wrong to make her feel that way.
I don’t know about everyone here but I think a lot of people have come here out of curiosity and they themselves don’t know what they want. ANR might be erotic for them but this is not exactly a dating site. If you are on a dating site, your expectation is clear – but ANR is something that’s intimate. Its like the boundaries are quite blur. So if you only want suckle, whats the guarantee that it might not lead to more things for which you may not have signed for. I can understand why people hesitate and there are 100 other reasons for that. But rest assured, it wasn’t anything to do with you. Please don’t feel bad about it.
Some people are curious, but still warming up to the idea. That’s why I prefer experienced people, so they have hopefully already gotten over that initial fear.
Also, I would suggest talking on the phone and then video chat first before meeting. It is kind of like a soft meeting. There is also a video chat feature here on ABFH that is a little bit glitchy, but it does work, if needed.
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