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I usually meet up for coffee. That gives us a chance to strike a nice conversation about any random topic and see if we are actually compatible or not. And then slowly transition towards discussing nursing. And if the partner is feeling comfortable then we discuss the logistics of it, whether one of us would host or if we should get a hotel room etc.
I first like to have video call talked and discuss dos and don’t.
After then meet in public place. if we vibe take it forward from there.what @krbreast said. 👆🏻
– take your time
– audio chat (real time, not just voice notes) at a minimum
– video chat(s) ideal
– don‘t be shy with dos and don‘ts – might feel weird to discuss boobie stuff out of context, but much better to have that clarity far in advance of being caught in the moment
– trust your gutenjoy. it‘s amazing. 🤗
My first time meeting someone I really just take a leap of faith and play in their car
The boys all have Saturday night’s 5-minute crib sheet memorized, and you should too. Play your cards right and you can get a new partner every night of the week. It’s amazing.
My most recent partner is my sub. So when we meet I decide if he nurses or not. Not sure if that is helpful but feel free to DM and we can chat further.
Lizz has it figured out, that’s how most people do it.
To meet someone for the first time,
just tell your sub when to nurse.
Try to know each other online. Then meet at public place. See how you vibe and then take it from there. It’s all about how safe and comfortable you feel.
Hi @sonia23. I saw your post a couple of days ago and wished that I had some sagely advice to offer but I’ve only met one person and that was…less than perfect. Kinda makes me want a time machine so I could go back and do it differently (same guy though).
However, one thing I can say is that I posted a similar comment not so long ago and I’ve found the advice of most of the men on here to be, on the whole; kind, caring and thoughtful.
I guess the most important thing is to listen to your own self and stay safe, but have fun 🙂@curiousdesire makes me wonder what you would advice? Give us some do’s and dont’s?
We got to know each other online (reddit) and then moved to text for more chats.
With the first guy I was a little…stupid. I just had him meet me in the visitor parking of my apartments, checked his ID (literally, why? lol but it made me feel safer) and then I took him to my unit.
Now I meet them at a local bar, just to make sure we vibe, etc. I’ve also let the bartenders there know what I’m doing (did it feel weird to march up to the bar, push my glasses up my nose and declare in all my 4’9 glory that I was a member of a kink community and I would be vetting men there? YES. lol but after that they were on my side).
And honestly the rule of meeting in person first, no session or anything, has really helped weed out who was really interested in meeting/legit/etc and who wasn’t.
I wish I could give some advice, Rumina. As I said, I’ve just had the one ‘encounter’ which although physically sublime, was not really ideal. I think the best thing to do, if you’re actually at the point of wanting to meet, is to listen to your gut and stay safe.
Have you any experience, Rumina? I could really do with some advice myself 🙂Hi @dairydaisy. I did reply to your question, I just forgot to tag you.
Anyway, I was just considering starting yet another topic in the forums, asking if the women want to form some kind of support network, women supporting women around abf/anr. though not necessarily lactation based What do you think? 🙂
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