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why is it so hard to find a partner? I’m from New Jersey and love to suckle I lov the female breast! I think it would be easier to find a pink pony at this point smh
Keep searching. The truth is out there.
I can relate, Jax.
The thing that surprises me is that guys want to suckle but no one wants to travel the distance to get what they want. I may live in Wyoming which people thing it’s too far, you got to step out of your comfort zone to get what you want. I did that 24 yrs ago when I came out to Wyoming for a job, I liked so much that I stayed in the state.
Guys need to do the same thing, if you find an ad that sparks your interest talk to her then go to her and see if it would work out. If it does then make arrangements to move to where she is. Yes it’s going to be hard at first but you got to make exceptions to the rule.
Another part of the issue is that many men want big, round, perky, ‘perfect’ breasts. They don’t want natural breasts with some sag. They don’t want cellulite or loose skin. They want the pornographic image only. They want the boobs they remember from their 18 year old lover from years gone by.
They forget that age, gravity, health issues, weight loss and weight gain all effect breasts, exponentially so.
And comments like ”I demand to be nursed” or ”I’ll only accept an E cup and bigger”, are running women away and leaving them to think that they aren’t ever going to find someone with a good heart and an open mind that wants something BEYOND the superficial.
Myself included. I’m about ready to give up myself.
I’ve made connections out here and then the guys just stop talking even though the convos are going exceptionally well and a lovely rapport established.
Well, that’s my two cents.
Over and out.
I’m in the same boat. I’m between the 2 of the biggest cities in the country. And most of the women are up north jersey. Im in the south. And yes I do agree you might have to travel a little to make it work. It’s really hard to make something over an hour away work. I have done it. With work and the travel it’s really tough to pull off. You would think there would be more women in NJ intrested. Unfortunately most of the accounts on here seem pretty inactive minus a few.
I agree Ms Classy!!
Also so many are out to seek a thrill, knock one of their bucket list!!
I’m seeking a relationship based on ANR.. I’m not looking to “hook” up.. Or let you “milk” me!
I read your profile before I respond.. If it turns me off I move on.. If I don’t have an attraction to you I’m not interested.. You can be across the US from me and if I’m interested I’d give you the chance.. But so many message me and it’s a complete turn off.. Obviously they haven’t read my profile!! Sorry not sorry I sound like a bitch!! But I’ve been at this awhile!!
I have had a few relationships that just didn’t work out.. 🦋Thanks for the feedback and yes I do believe in putting work in for what you want!! Sad but very true some men can want a standard higher then their worth lol but definitely their lost again thanks for the comments everyone
I think some underestimate how hard it is to find a woman into this. Even if you manage to chat to someone it’s very likely they will just disappear or ghost you. I’m sure women seeking women will agree too.
Anyway, chin up. It’s been quiet over the past year or so due to covid. Hopefully in the next few months as the world starts to reopen your luck will get better 🙂
…and just on the comment on standards. Everyone has the right to seek the sort of person they want. It’s nothing to do with self-worth. It’s just personal taste.
Same, I have messaged women in my surrounding states and still no luck. I am not picky or anything like that. Some of the women I talked too want men in their local area.
I can’t move because of my job but I can host and travel depending on their comfortablilty level. I am not having any luck.
For those are successful, what are you saying in posts and profiles?
It is all about taking that extra step. Sometimes people just cut it off due to distance.
Unless you communicate honestly and freely, you can’t know how well you click.
I am hopeful to meet someone I click good. I stay open for communication.
Good luck to all.I also want to add that the whole “Putting in work” approach will just result on frustration. This is all just a lottery in my opinion. What I mean is you have no bearing on the number of women into ABF in your area. “Extra” work like putting up personals contantly 24/7 isn’t going to change that.
The best thing you can do is state clearly what you’re looking for on your profile and upload a picture. That way a potential partner knows what you look like and what you’re looking for.
I don’t want to sound like a downer, my main message out of this is be patient 🙂
So many factors involved & no doubt men out number women on here, Distance,age,preferences, also this site covers a vast area globally. The numbers are realistically quite low on here so the odds aren’t in our favour- Though as more join that improves ,
I remain positive & hopeful.
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