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The Outlaw,
You couldn’t be bothered to read the whole piece, but somehow felt qualified to deliver a full psychological assessment of the woman who wrote it. That’s adorable. 😂
The naked photo comment is my favorite part, though. You managed to demonstrate the exact point of the article you were too “bored” to finish. You saw what I chose to show you and decided that entitled you to determine who I am, what I want, and how I should expect to be treated.
And “full of herself”? Absofuckinglutely!! I like myself! Quite a lot, actually! I realize a confident woman enjoying her own sexuality without asking your permission may be terribly unsettling, but I’m afraid that sounds very much like a YOU problem.
Fortunately, I have neither the desire nor the crayons required to explain any of this further.
I do, however, have an almost unreasonable LOVE of the block button. It’s one of my favorite things about the internet! One tiny click and a complete stranger who mistook his opinion of me for something I should care about simply ceases to exist in my little corner of it.
Now that is fun. 😘
Younger Older Asian Guy,
😂 I think that’s precisely the right amount of serious. Seriously flirt, seriously have fun, and if a serious connection happens somewhere in the middle of all that, even better. I seriously approve. 😉
Quality Drink,
Thank you! 😊 I think the only place we differ is that I don’t see harmless flirting as time wasted simply because it isn’t leading somewhere. If two people know exactly what it is and they’re both enjoying themselves, then the fun was the point. Not every lovely interaction needs a future to have been worth having. And yes,we get one life. That seems like an excellent argument for enjoying the hell out of it. 😉
Cream and Coffee,
YES!! 😂 The whole “I absolutely respect boundaries…but surely you didn’t mean that boundary with me” thing gets me every time.
And exactly! Sometimes something can just be fun and lovely for what it is. It doesn’t need a next step to have been worth it. Be honest, believe people when they tell you what they want, respect it, and enjoy the hell out of each other…however that looks. 😘
I don’t have the time to write more, but I can say “get it girl!”.
Steve Beets,
😂 Honestly, “get it girl!” tells me you got the whole damn point. I’ll take it! 😘
Grogman,
You know me, I’m rarely serious when there’s this much flirting to be done. 😘
Well said, looking at profiles to get an idea about the person is a good start. If their sense of humor is mentioned then join in with some banter. Putting a smile on someone’s face isn’t all that hard, you might never meet but you might enjoy an online relationship.
Now for a favorite movie quote for those who did get their panties in a twist: Lighten up, Francis.
We are all here for various reasons. Whatever our individual reason, respect others boundaries should be our number one priority. Those boundaries may differ from yours. Deal with it. Respectfully.
Art,
Exactly! It really isn’t that complicated. Read the room, show a little personality, make someone laugh. Not every interaction has to lead anywhere to be worth having. And bonus points for “Lighten up, Francis.” 😂 That may need to become my standard response around here.
David,
Yes! It’s really that simple. You don’t have to understand someone else’s boundaries, agree with them, or share them. You just have to respect them. Funny how the actual gentlemen never seem confused by this. 😉😘
Bob Willis 😉,
Well that’s awfully convenient… I was starting to wonder who was going to put me out. 😏🔥
Well now, Lola…
I was just attempting to be a responsible adult within this wonderful community whilst sitting here quietly, sipping apple juice and minding my own business as one does and then you stroll in, drop this manifesto of mischief and suddenly I’m rethinking my entire approach. 😂
You know how to make “having fun” sound dangerously appealing. 🫣
I have to admit that your point about people taking things too seriously is spot on and some folks see a wink and immediately start drafting a five‑year plan. Meanwhile, you’re over here reminding everyone that sometimes a flirt is just a flirt, a picture is just a picture and a little chaos is practically a public service.
Honestly, I’m starting to suspect you don’t just stir the pot, you season it, simmer it and serve it with a knowing smirk!
I can totally agree that you do indeed contain multitudes, of which some are wearing halos and some of them are absolutely not, however, I appreciate the reminder that not every interaction needs a destination and that sometimes the destination is simply enjoying the moment or the troublemaker who created it. 😂
So carry on, Lola.
Post your pictures, drop your winks, tease the masses and watch the internet collectively forget how to behave. 😂I’ll just sit myself over here, enjoy the show and trying very hard not to assume you’re secretly interviewing me for some sort of position.
Because you made it very clear that there is no position and we can stand down.
…Though I might keep my CV on standby.
Purely for administrative reasons, of course. 😂😂😂
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