Can We Stop Taking This So Seriously?

[Lola May]

The Outlaw,

You couldn’t be bothered to read the whole piece, but somehow felt qualified to deliver a full psychological assessment of the woman who wrote it. That’s adorable. 😂

The naked photo comment is my favorite part, though. You managed to demonstrate the exact point of the article you were too “bored” to finish. You saw what I chose to show you and decided that entitled you to determine who I am, what I want, and how I should expect to be treated.

And “full of herself”? Absofuckinglutely!! I like myself! Quite a lot, actually! I realize a confident woman enjoying her own sexuality without asking your permission may be terribly unsettling, but I’m afraid that sounds very much like a YOU problem.

Fortunately, I have neither the desire nor the crayons required to explain any of this further.

I do, however, have an almost unreasonable LOVE of the block button. It’s one of my favorite things about the internet! One tiny click and a complete stranger who mistook his opinion of me for something I should care about simply ceases to exist in my little corner of it.

Now that is fun. 😘

[Lola May]

Younger Older Asian Guy,

😂 I think that’s precisely the right amount of serious. Seriously flirt, seriously have fun, and if a serious connection happens somewhere in the middle of all that, even better. I seriously approve. 😉

[Lola May]

Quality Drink,

Thank you! 😊 I think the only place we differ is that I don’t see harmless flirting as time wasted simply because it isn’t leading somewhere. If two people know exactly what it is and they’re both enjoying themselves, then the fun was the point. Not every lovely interaction needs a future to have been worth having. And yes,we get one life. That seems like an excellent argument for enjoying the hell out of it. 😉

[Lola May]

Cream and Coffee,

YES!! 😂 The whole “I absolutely respect boundaries…but surely you didn’t mean that boundary with me” thing gets me every time.

And exactly! Sometimes something can just be fun and lovely for what it is. It doesn’t need a next step to have been worth it. Be honest, believe people when they tell you what they want, respect it, and enjoy the hell out of each other…however that looks. 😘

[Steve Beets]

I don’t have the time to write more, but I can say “get it girl!”.

[Lola May]

Steve Beets,

😂 Honestly, “get it girl!” tells me you got the whole damn point. I’ll take it! 😘

[Lola May]

Grogman,

You know me, I’m rarely serious when there’s this much flirting to be done. 😘

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