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There are obviously some people on here that women avoid, but there are also some decent people who are good and honest souls that I have been fortunate enough to cross paths with in person.
I wish there were a feature on here where we could rate other sucklers and they could accept it be posted to their profile or not. That way there is no way to weaponize it or anything, since it would require consent.
Would anyone else find this feature useful? Any concerns?
I like it! As long as it isn’t being weaponized! That’s a good system you suggested, I think!
I like that idea! It’s giving feedback for the suckler to review and improve in areas that are needed and positive reinforcement for what they do well.
I don’t think this is a good idea. We are not on here for a popularity contest, which it will turn out to be. So it definitely will be weaponized I’m afraid. It’s also pretty predictable who will get reviews and who will not.
Concerns: yes of course! I dont like the idea of people being judged. And if its true what you are suggesting: certain people we need to avoid are known, its not necessary to have a system like that. Gossip does its work already.
Another concern: I don’t like to have a kind of list of people I should like. Its always better to go with your own gut. What someone else does like might not suit me and vice versa. Thats a good thing: people are different!Thirdly: its empty, like a like on the socials. What is a like based on? It says nothing at all.
And last but not least: Who would want someone who has been with everybody else? Or is it based on nice online chatting? That says nothing about behaviour in real life and therefore is useless. Or did everyone you met online tell you only true stories?
Rumina, it is not for a popularity contest, but perhaps one woman’s experience is worth something to another. It is to me. It might be negative to you, but again, it would be up to the person to post it or not on their profile which is not weaponization. People are free to interpret it how they would like. If they do not like that the person has met with someone else, no one would be forcing them to use it or to like what they read, even if it is positive feedback.
Also, just as an aside, we are all adults here. Any partner you have been with has been with someone else at some point for suckling or more and I was speaking of suckling only or even just meeting for coffee type reviews, character confirmations. To wish for otherwise at my age (45) or older is unrealistic.
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