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I have a quick question of what women value in profiles when they are looking at them? Do you want the bare minimums on there (Like I don’t smell and actually brush my teeth), do you want my life’s hopes and dreams, or do you want to know along the lines of experience? What will provide you the most value for the precious time you are using to look at said profiles? I know my question will be looked at with varied eyes and will either be ignored or will get varied responses, but I really want to know…what do women on here value in a profile? Thank you so much for your consideration and responses!
For me, somewhere between I brush my teeth and your entire life story would be perfect. 😂
I want enough to get a feel for who you actually are. What do you like? What interests you? What makes you laugh? Why are you here? Give me something that makes me think I might actually enjoy spending time with you!
Because that’s really it for me. I can find someone attractive and still have absolutely no desire to spend five minutes with them. I want to read your profile and get some sense that we could sit together, talk, laugh, be comfortable and actually enjoy each other’s company. The rest doesn’t matter much if I don’t like your vibe.
And I pay attention to how someone writes. A little personality, some humor, some curiosity, a brain clearly operating behind the keyboard…THAT gets my attention. I don’t need your résumé or a detailed inventory of your ANR experience. I’d much rather get a glimpse of the person.
And “just ask” tells me absolutely nothing except that I probably won’t.
Good luck! I look forward to reading your profile 🫶🏻
For me, I want enough information to know who you are and what you’re actually looking for. I don’t need your entire life story, but “I’m clean and brush my teeth” is more of a baseline than something that would make me interested in a profile 😂
I like seeing some personality, what kind of dynamic you’re looking for, and enough about your everyday life to know if we might actually get along outside of this interest.
Experience matters less to me than honesty, communication, consistency, and being willing to learn what works for the individual person.
And probably my biggest one ☝️ be accurate about what you’re seeking. If you really only want occasional/casual ABF, say that. If you genuinely want the relationship/connection part of ANR, say that. Neither is wrong, but the mismatch can waste everyone’s time.
Basically, give me enough to decide whether I’d want to have a conversation with you, not just whether you like breasts. 😂
There is no singular entity that browses profiles called “women” whom you can magically appease to statistically defeat and/or tilt the machine in your favor. That doesn’t work: cull it. Here’s what you really want to ask and know:
People (men and women) want to know what kind of ANR/ABF encounter you’re looking to have, and a rough outline of who you want to have it with. Short term, long term, wet, dry. Platonic, sexual: educate yourself and inform yourself re: the menu. Include a sentence or 2 on how much experience you’ve got. Disclose your STD’s and marital status.
Think of the things you’d like to see… and include those.
Don’t just say: “Looking for an ANR partner.”
Don’t just say: “Ask me.”
Be briefly descriptive. Don’t write a novel, like I do. “Women” hate that.
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