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What are your top 3 reasons to reach out or read a profile? What are 3 reasons you opt out? I answered this question on the forum post below me. I think it’s nice to hear the same question from a woman’s perspective.
To reach out:
1. Good intro on goals that are related to what I seek as well (bad intro or bio is for me a no-go).
2. Location – local
3. Attractive (if I am gonna be with someone they must have some cute features etc that I am attracted to)Opt-out:
1. Big age gap
2. Location – long distance (there is only a few men/women that can afford that many travels tk sustain anr/abf relationship, so not realistic)
3. Poor communication skills/introTo opt out:
I tend to avoid the chest/ pelvic pics profiles. (They are usually the ones who are chasing sex under the guise of nursing ) .
I tend to avoid men with breast as their profile pic. (It’s kindof a Red flag/gas lighting to me)
Location
Age
Lack of communication. Messages that say “hey” are automatically ignored.
Empty profile.
60+ friends lol indicates a picture collector of women.To reach out:
Well written profile
Profile doesn’t appear that sex is It’s intended goal.
Prefers anr over abf
Location – local
AgeThank you, ladies, for responding. I was curious. I had a general idea but it’s still nice to see it. 🙂
Hi,
Reasons to reach out:
1. A nice profile. Someone who has put the effort in to decribe himself and what his goals are.
2. Humor!!!
3. Intelligence. I really do love an intellectual match, room for exploring, curiosity, open discussion and debate.
4. Emotional intelligence. I mean kindness, empathy, loyalty. Non judgmental. Humanity.
5. Communication skills. Show interest in who i am, not only in my boobsTurn offs:
1. Guys whose only interest is sex, pictures, sizes. I call them collectors.
2. Big age gap.
3. Mansplainers who want to explain to me what femininity is, how to breastfeed (hey, i got two kids, you know), what to eat, how to use supplements etc. Please check first if i really dont know and if i am interested. Saves time we can skip what we both already know. I want to be taken seriously.
4. Maga. I love political debate, but i hate war. Open discussion means we both listen and dont get offended immediately.The fact that even needs to be said is sad >.< lol. Sorry you had to deal with that
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