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I recently connected with an amazing human being on this site. We exchanged banter and shared some laughs and stark realizations and I thought that we were on the road to a wonderful, budding relationship and I was blocked without warning.
The only thing I can deduce is that perhaps she saw my personal post on this forum looking for ANR in my current area. I don’t know how to remove it and would love that opportunity to hopefully make amends with this luscious lass. She should know who she is by now. If given the opportunity she is all I will ever need or want.
Hopefully she will see this post and know that she is who I want. If she reaches out, I will delete this profile.
I hope everyone finds their person because I found mine in the South.
Good luck to all y’all. Don’t take each other for granted!I’m sorry that happened to you. It’s very unfortunate. The reality of this is, it happens more frequently than not. If you look at previous posts you will probably find where others have written similar things. It’s happened to me more often than I recall. I almost expect it now, until I actually meet someone in person & then, nothing is guaranteed. It’s more hopeful but it depends on the person & how true & sincere they are. The kind & respectful action would be for them to merely say, “I don’t think we are a good match.” & leave it at that, rather than disappearing, that is, given the recipient of the message respects receiveing disappointing news & doesn’t harass the bearer of uncomfortable news.
Some people disappear and then they return whenever they feel like it, I am not sure if that is any better. I feel a lot of people on this site just want a window to fantasize or to measure how attractive they are without any intention to make a connection, they could use AI for that and not hurt anyone.
Good points Cindy. It is so hard to see and accept rejectory messages, especially when there is so little known about another and why. I am guessing that your prospect seemed very genuine and and righteous in your time writing her. And I’m am sure she was. But that doesn’t mean she was free to seek this type of relationship with you. My guess is that she is married or dating someone else and was almost discovered by him/her. And that is a strong line to cross. I am guessing she is still on here, but isn’t messaging you anymore.
I had a friend here years ago. She blocked me for some unknown reason. Sometimes people accidentally block someone because they hit the wrong button and don’t know it. I noticed her in a chat once and replied to the topic and also mentioned that I was blocked by her. She immediately unblocked me and we were friends again.
I don’t know if your love interest has this option, and if so wants it. You sound like a passionate and loving man here, but I have no idea of the thoughts you’ve shared with her or if they were received well. My guess is they weren’t. But being a rejected partner is hard to accept… and there are few options left but to move on. So I am suggesting that you move on. You can always run into her here in a chat. And if you approach it well, you may recover what you had. But there is no guarantee. She may have been disagreeing with you all the time and she didn’t know how to tell you, even if she sounded aggreeable. Some people can’t stand conflict at all, so they sound accepting, but inside they aren’t. And you MUST accept that as a possibility.
I wish you good luck in what comes to you next, my friend.
I appreciate all of your responses. It is hard enough to date in this day and age much less with the parameters that we all seek. It just sucks. I hope we all find what we’re looking for and remember to communicate, even when it’s hard and to treat each other as you want to be treated. Best of luck y’all!
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