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Tired of getting no responses? Feeling down because you can’t find a good match? Are you starting to feel jaded?
Take a damn break. You don’t need to be on here all the time. Detach yourself from anything ABF related for a while. The site will be here when you return. Do this before you start making topics moaning about everything which will turn everyone off from you.
Thanks for coming to my TED talk.
very good advice mate.
👏👏 well said.
I’m imagining Lman on a stage giving a Steve Jobs-style talk to a throng of enraptured tech-kiddies, all greeting his every utterance with excited “Woo-hoo!!!”‘s.
You got a black turtleneck sweater, mate? 🤣
Love this!! ♥️
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Absolutely this! Sometimes a break of a year or two can even be needed to give time for personal growth and reflecting and grounding ourself.
@tuehlykv and a pair of New Balance?!
@londonman I can’t agree more. We all have other responsibilities and priorities in our life. ABF/ANR are just add-on bonuses
Counter Point – It took me 5 years to find my first ANR partner. It may take me another 5 years or more to find a second, if I’m that fortunate. But if I take a break from looking, I might miss that person, and then it might be even longer.
Not discouraged, yet.
Jaded, only by the sheer number of flakes and bots on the other sites (don’t experience them on this site, thank you, Michael.)and if you can’t find someone or don’t get messages don’t blame it on racism.
Yeah this definitely encouraged me to take a break after being on here for a couple consecutive days. Thanks man.
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