What many of us don’t realize about the nature of ANR

There’s something about adult nursing that many whom seek it seem to miss. All too often it reminds me of ancient tantric practices, in which climax isn’t the goal of the intimacy. Instead what is sought is the sustained ecstasy of remaining present sexually and energetically with the other person. Seduced by the mere realization of one another. Instead of releasing the pleasure in a short lived orgasm, we send all of the most potent sexual and creative energies inward and up into each other. Going upwards through our bodies passing each chakra center as the sacred kundalini energy spiral. I think it’s what intrinsically draws us all to seek an ANR connection, it’s in our DNA to long for this type of experience. Everything from holding space for one another, to making that soul gazing eye contact points to ANR being a tantric/tantra sexual practice.(you can research this) It’s intoxicating for two pure souls who understand this and choose to share it with one another. Unfortunately this community is filled with people who fail to realize the divinity of such a practice. aka men who just want a nut, and women who just want sexual attention and or are not serious in the search. But at a base level, it’s the same sacred intimacy that we are all longing for. It’s almost meditative. I’ve heard so many people’s testimonies, along with my own of experiencing everything else in the world just “fade away”… and in this moment divine presence is achieved.