› Personal Ads & Forum › General Discussion › SITE UPDATE … extra “contact control” for Verified Members is now active
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May 5, 2026 at 9:46 pm #738342
As promised, extra “contact control” options for Verified Members have been added.
Details :
A new button “Who can contact me?” will be visible on your profile page (for all members) near the top.
This allows you to control who can start a new private message conversation with you, or send you a Friend Request.
Regular members have three settings :
Everyone
Nobody
Friends OnlyVerified Members have extra options :
Everyone
Nobody
Friends only
Men only, from anywhere
Women only, from anywhere
Anyone from my country
Men only, from my country
Women only, from my countryNotes :
– You can change between these settings at will, anytime.
– only new PM conversations are affected, existing conversations are not. So, for example, if you select “Nobody” then this will prevent all new contact, but your existing conversations can be continued.
– hope you enjoy this new extra flexibility!Thank you again to the Verified Members of this site.
And if anyone wants to upgrade from “regular” to “Verified” then please contact me Michael Admin. A $50 donation via PayPal is required. You get little bonuses like this, with more to come. Please help support this website!
May 5, 2026 at 9:52 pm #738344Thanks Michael, very handy!
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May 5, 2026 at 9:55 pm #738345Brilliant boss man. I’ve already made changes.
May 6, 2026 at 12:34 pm #738625Great update! Thanks Michael!
May 7, 2026 at 2:36 pm #739051Thanks, Michael! I’m sure verified members will appreciate this extra control!
Loving the site! Especially the Café meet-up.
Cheers,
DavidMay 16, 2026 at 4:17 pm #742822Good update thank you xx 👍🏼👍🏼
May 16, 2026 at 10:39 pm #742972I just returned from crazy weeks of craziness lol. I may try to show up a but more regularly and just logged in and saw this update! So awesome! I just updated mine to all from my own country. It only applies to new contacts, right? I was just getting so many messages in the past from outside of where I am, impossible to meet anyone this way.
Thanks for adding extra features!May 16, 2026 at 10:51 pm #742976Hi Kat, yes it applies only to new PM conversations & friend requests
All your existing conversations are not affected.
May 17, 2026 at 3:44 am #743129Great update, as well as the other new features… thanks, Michael ❤️
May 23, 2026 at 2:46 pm #747173Love this!! Thank you for the option
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