SHOULD WE TAKE THIS OFFLINE? 👀

[Lola]

@infinitesuckles 🫶🏻,

Being considered interesting may be the best compliment I’ve gotten in a long time, so thank you for that. ❤️

And this is exactly the kind of feedback I was hoping for. I’m definitely not married to the Southeast or any location, really. If enough women are genuinely interested, I’d much rather choose somewhere that gives us the best chance of actually getting everyone together.

And noted on Vegas. I’m keeping a running mental map of just how far I can reasonably drag everyone across the country.🤓🙃

[Lola]

@mmmmtex 😊

Yay!! Another woman in the YES column! 🤗❤️ That’s what I want to hear.

And those are all great suggestions. At this rate, my potential-location list is going to include half the United States before we’re finished. 😂 But I’m loving seeing where everyone would actually be willing to go.

[Lola]

@selennajola 🫶🏻

Thanks so much for your input! I will keep you posted!

[Lola]

@anrprincess 😁

NOLA certainly wouldn’t hurt MY feelings. 😂 I could practically organize that one from my backyard and still sleep in my own bed. ❤️

And thank you! I’m starting to think this crazy little idea may actually have legs.🤓

[Lola]

@parchedone 😉

Funny you should mention that…because the ball could potentially already be rolling on something very much like this. Stay tuned!

I think a Zoom get together is incredibly viable. No travel, no expense, geography becomes irrelevant, and our friends outside the U.S. can join us too. It gives everyone a chance to put actual faces and voices to the usernames and just have some fun together.

So yes…I LOVE the idea. And you may not have to wait very long. 😉

[Em]

For whatever my input is worth, Vegas sounds like a great suggestion to me too.

[Lola]

@pnwem 🤓

Thanks for responding!

[New in nj]

I’m very interested and I’d have no problem being one of three women with 47 men 😍😍😍 lol. But seriously, my biggest issue will be the financial aspect. I’m another vote for the East coast. Driving distance from Jersey would be even better for me.

[Clea]

This sounds like such a lovely idea, especially with women getting together. Alas, I am in Canada. If there was a local event I’d definitely attend. Its supportive to be able to talk about ANR in public with others.

[Triton™]

Lola,

I really like the spirit of this. There’s something refreshing about the idea of taking the warmth of this space and giving it a real-world setting and not as a pressure cooker but as a simple chance to meet, talk, laugh and see who we are when we’re not behind screens.

From my side, count me in. The idea of a meet and greet feels like a healthy step for the community and I’d happily make the trip if the date and location line up.

I agree with you that the key piece is whether enough people would genuinely consider coming. A gathering only works if it feels balanced, comfortable and welcoming for everyone, especially the ladies who’d be taking the bigger leap by showing up.

So if this does move forward then I’d be glad to support it, show up and help make it a relaxed and friendly environment. I’m flexible on location, be it in New Orleans, Atlanta, Nashville or wherever ends up making the most sense for the group.

Curious to see how many others feel the same.

[Chocolate]

Hell Yes! I’ve been wanting something like this since I discovered this kink community. Having ANR/ABF events in DFW would make me a happy girl! I get so jealous of cities like Houston and Los Angeles because they actually have ANR/ABF events.

[Lola]

Chocolate, I love your enthusiasm!🩷 And I’m originally from the Dallas–Fort Worth area, so DFW has a special place in my heart! It’s funny that a metro area that big doesn’t have more opportunities for people in this community to connect. Hopefully, a little interest and initiative will get something going! 😉😘

[Bill]

I’m not far from DFW, so that would be an excellent choice. Unless you want to meet right in the middle of the country. What city is right in the middle? 🤔 Why I do believe OKC is right in the middle. How interesting!!

[Lola]

@sirise92 😘

Bill, how convenient that the middle of the country just happens to be Oklahoma City!😉I’m actually considering throwing geography out the window, doing the whole thing in New Orleans, and calling it a day. Great food, fabulous music, and plenty of opportunities for everyone to get into a little trouble. What’s not to love? 😘

[Lola]

Vegas does seem to be getting some love! Meanwhile, I’m over here trying to convince myself that New Orleans would be so much easier (at least for me)! And honestly, who needs Vegas when you’ve got the French Quarter? 😉

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