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  • #802742
    Sam
    Participant
    • Male
    • Looking for: Female
    • USA
    • Texas

    A slightly different idea I had several years ago… there was a group I met with that had a weekend retreat for tying flies for flyfishing at a campground at Toledo Bend Lake in Northern LA. It was a really nice, comfortable campground with a great kitchen and lots of room in the common areas as well as the beautiful lake. It had bunkbeds for about 60 people. I have about 5 kayaks I can bring too so if the weather is fine there can be water activities too. Toledo Bend is also a great lake to fish so there’s that too. The organizers said it was really cheap so it might be a good option because of that too.

    We were all required to bring some kind of food (I fried a turkey) and we all ate very well. It was a great time and would be a great idea for us I believe.

    Like Lola mentioned we would need to figure out how to manage the deluge of guys compared to the small number of women so that the women aren’t drowning in propositions in that sea. It would need to be by invitation only, I would think. Also rules would have to be established to keep ALL safe and comfortable. You all know how annoying and uncomfrtably persistent us guys can feel to sensitive women. I was asking around about this about 10 years ago here but never foumd much interest. I think it would be amazing and enjoyable for many of us if we did it right. Thinkaboutit! Hmmmmmm. This would be a great option so that almost no one would be excluded because of price. And it is so beautiful there! Just another option…

    #802752
    Rumina
    Participant
    • Female
    • Looking for: Male
    • Netherlands

    I ll be in the us oct 10 th -17 th. So when you can arrange it within that timeframe, yes!

    #802754
    Mr.French
    Participant
    • Male
    • Looking for: Female
    • USA
    • Texas

    What a brave and innovative post!
    You are quite the community leader 😉🤩

    It sounds like a great idea. I would make an effort to go. I am a homebody but around the right people I can relax and enjoy myself and even have plenty of laughs.

    The only real issue is think a lot of people im the lifestyle are shy and vanilla about it due to the social awareness and public awareness. Not me though, free the boo is loud and proud. Although I will say nobody close to me knows about my sweet tooth for boobs

    I like the effort you put into this community! I would go to enjoy a lifestyle I am tired of not living 🙂

    #802760
    Grogman 🍑🚀💙
    Participant
    • Male
    • Looking for: Female
    • USA
    • Ohio

    @lolamayi12345 One can dream. 😜😂🤣


    @sind
    being able to meet one friend from here is a special experience let alone four.🤗

    #802792
    Lola May
    Participant
    • Female
    • Looking for: Male
    • USA
    • Louisiana

    @sind 🩷,

    😂😂 Well, I refuse to wait until we’re old ladies, so apparently I have my work cut out for me.

    But I do think you’re right about needing to know who’s actually attending. I’m adventurous, but even I’m not getting on a plane for a mystery guest list. 😳

    And if nothing else, I now desperately want to hear the legend of Grog and the Four Bosomy Ladies. 😏😂❤️

    #802795
    Lola May
    Participant
    • Female
    • Looking for: Male
    • USA
    • Louisiana

    @mr-french 😘,

    Of course you would say that, Mr. French. We all know you’re a little biased where I’m concerned (and I ❤️ it)😘

    But I’m not going to lie, I really would love for you to come. You’ve become one of those people I genuinely look forward to seeing around here, and I’d be awfully disappointed if I managed to pull this thing off and you weren’t there.

    And I think you’re right, there’s something pretty damn appealing about all of us getting to be completely ourselves for an evening without having to explain why the hell we all know each other. 😂

    So yes…you better make an effort. I’ll be looking for you. 👀😁

    #802797
    Lola May
    Participant
    • Female
    • Looking for: Male
    • USA
    • Louisiana

    @dairydaisy 🩷,

    Well hell, now I have a deadline!

    October 10th–17th. Noted! And I have to say, the fact that you’d actually come while you’re over here makes me want to pull this off even more. What part of the US will you be in?

    I would LOVE to finally meet you in person. Now apparently I just need to organize an entire meet & greet around your international travel schedule. No pressure at all. 😉🤓✈️

    #802801
    Lola May
    Participant
    • Female
    • Looking for: Male
    • USA
    • Louisiana

    @swellerfeller 🤗,

    You have definitely thought this through!

    I love that you’re already brainstorming ways to make something affordable and accessible for everyone. I’m probably picturing something a LITTLE less ambitious for our first go-round, but I really do appreciate the enthusiasm and the ideas.🤓

    Right now I’m mostly trying to figure out whether enough people, especially the women—would actually show up. If the answer to that is yes, THEN I’ll let myself start figuring out what the hell I’ve gotten myself into. 🫶🏻

    #802823
    Glenn
    Participant
    • Male
    • Looking for: Female
    • USA
    • Florida

    This sounds like it would be a fun experience. Im thinking the beaches of FL would be a wonderful spot 😉

    #802876
    Grogman 🍑🚀💙
    Participant
    • Male
    • Looking for: Female
    • USA
    • Ohio

    @lolamayi12345 “The Legend of Grog and the Four Bosomy Ladies” has a nice ring to it.😜
    Maybe @sind can use her writing skills to bring make believe to life. 🤔

    #802882
    Breastie
    Participant
    • Female
    • Looking for: Male
    • USA
    • Massachusetts

    Praising my writing might just get someone to play a lead tole in a novel but ..you have to give me a nugget of truth to hang my bra on. So @user please dm me a good story to write about regarding your abf journey.

    #802890
    Gina
    Participant
    • Female
    • Looking for: Male
    • USA
    • Delaware

    Would definitely be interested.

    #802902
    Mr.French
    Participant
    • Male
    • Looking for: Female
    • USA
    • Texas

    Well I don’t know what it is … but you..got.. it. 🥴

    I think it’s a great idea !

    I usually skip out on the social settings , me being a 1-1 up close and personal
    This feels different, I am convinced this would be cool thanks to you Lola May 🤩

    Or maybe im being biased 😉🤪

    #802920
    Lynise
    Participant
    • Female
    • Looking for: Male
    • USA
    • New Jersey

    I would be interested in going if it’s somewhere on the east coast, hopefully. 😊

    #802957
    Real ABF’er
    Participant
    • Male
    • Looking for: Female
    • USA
    • California

    As a community organizer, wrangling my peers together at the local level is a feat in and of itself… I can’t imagine doing this at the macro national level for a lifestyle event. You’re heart and goodwill is in the right place tho 🙂

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