Seeds of Intentions in ABF Searching

[Latching Asian Man]

Have you planted any “seeds of intentions” today in your search for an ABF partner / encounter?

If so, what did you do?

If you already have, what have you been doing to water those seeds?

I have planted mine by writing an extensive profile and posting many times throughout the past two years specifically for an ABF connection / encounter and past 15 years for a fun encounter with a beautiful and down to earth woman. I have created various profiles to showcase who I am and hope for someone to reach out to me showing interest in who I am and what I offer.

How are the health of your seeds of intentions for ABF?

[Sparkling 💎]

Nice post!! Post the intentions to the universe in your deepest meditations too.. then let go of the desire for a certain outcome.. be detached either way!!

[Rumina]

Although I personally do not speak of seeds of intention ( hot totally different associations with that term, my bad) I did have certain hopes and dreams and, if you like, goals, when I started my search. Some still are with me, I let go of others or adjusted them and new ones came along.

I have learned to be very happy with the people i have met online and/or in person and to accept things don’t go the way I imagined. And what I found isn’t less beautiful, fulfilling or whatever you want to call it. Its just different. I learned a whole lot about abf/ anr, about people and about myself. Time well spent I’d say.

[Lola]

I actually really like the seed metaphor.

For me, though, I think the best “watering” happens when I stop worrying so much about what I’m trying to grow and just enjoy the garden.

I talk to people. I’m curious. I flirt. I make friends. I ask questions. I laugh a LOT. And I let people surprise me.

Some connections will never be anything more than a fun conversation, and I’m perfectly happy with that. Others may turn into something I never saw coming.

I think that’s half the fun of being here. You can plant all the seeds you want, but you don’t always get to decide what blooms.🌹🪻🌸🌺🌷🌻🌼🌹🪻🌸🌺🌷🌻🌼💐🪷🌹🪻🌸🌻🌼🌷

[MizzLizz]

I think it’s a lot diff from a guy than from a girls perspective.
The guys def outnumber the women by like 6:1 and ultimately the women decide who they pick.

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