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Hi, fellow milkshake lovers. I am in my 20s, DDD, and have always been interested in ABF but scared of the intense process of inducing and maintaining lactation. Is anyone the same? I am interested and open to males and females but have not been successful in connecting with anyone. I don’t know if this is one of the reasons. For now, I really enjoy breast massage, nipple worship, and suckling. I massage and stretch my nipples every day for comfort and welcome to discuss techniques here too.
You should not feel pressured to do anything you personally don’t find sexy, exciting, and truly want to do. There are PLENTY of people of all sexes who love dry suckling. And the right partner for you will absolutely want to go slow and establish a real connection and discuss whether induction is right for your partnership–it may be that say pumping is not for you, but you end up making drops anyway with regular stimulation. You’ll find the right balance for you and your future partner.
As far as successful partnerships and connections, I’d really suggest a more detailed profile. What you’re looking for, what you want in a partner, more about male vs. female partners. You don’t have to have pics or reveal more geographic stuff than you want, but I think you would get more responses, especially from the ladies you’re looking for with a little more detail about what you want to find–FWB, platonic, regular play, lifetime partnership, etc. WHO do you most hope to find? Put a little detail in about your ideal partnership so they can see themselves in the profile.
suggestion/advice you will get enough….from a lot on here – however in the area of ANR/ABF “YOU DECIDE”…..don’t let the opinions/suggestions/advice of others rule your way of thinking and doing things. Be who you are as you are. Live your life in your own way(s). Do not live your life according to what others tell you to do in life.
Bottomline – BE YOUR OWN MASTER. Make it a habit and you will gain unimaginable success in every walk of life.Many, many women are very happy to engage in nursing, breast and nipple play, etc., without trying to induce. Inducing is normally quite difficult and requires real dedication, anyway.
I’d guess almost any man or woman here would be happy with your preferences, too (and if not, they are not right for you!). So be happy! 🙂
Yes, I’d gather most are, from my abf experience and friends/partners. Nursing does not need to include lactation.
I love it ❤️Do what you feel comfortable with. Dry suckling is wonderful. Having such a relationship would be fabulous . Lactation can come later as a joint endeavor. 🤗
Be assured, this IS NOT a lactation site. Most people on here are not lactating or even in that process…..ABF and ANR involve the process of suckling. it is the time and communication and intimacy that is shared. A small percentage of individuals on here induce or attempt to, but most of us are not are in that category.
Inducing works best if you have a regular partner and you BOTH want the same thing. That is difficult when work schedules are involved, etc. The suckling process is what’s beautiful and shared, the time and the intimacy, the connection. Milk is not needed at all for that. Best of luck to you.
Yes. This is just my belief based on reading here, but most members here are fine with or without lactation as part of their ABF or ANR.
And you are most correct that starting and maintaining lactation is not something for the faint at heart. It’s a full time job.
Love my dry nursing.. so much! Enjoy the act of nursing and the amazing bond that comes with it. Best of luck
I love nursing of any type. I have been at this for over 16 years now and 99% of my partners have been dry. I just love the intimacy and bonding that occurs while suckling. Be yourself and don’t settle for less than what you desire
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