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Does anyone link this in with their ABF relationship? I’ve always found this hot – would be interested in chatting to anyone who enjoys this?
Where a woman (usually) roleplays as a cow being milked
It can be more than role play. While there are varying degrees including cosplay, breast worship, maximizing production and bdsm it can even be a life style.
I have never tried it but did engage in a chat one time with a woman who was really into it and it does sound fascinating and fun as a roleplay or even testing the waters for the lifestyle.
Hucow is Human Cow, there are a couple films on xhamster that show how much of a fetish/lifestyle it can be.
For women who want to be treated with respect this has always made me uncomfortable. We have worked so hard to be treated equally. Would a guy like to be a hu-bull? Why isn’t this also popular?
They are called Bulls and usually are involved with cuckholds. Where the wife has sex with other men. sometimes in front of him. Depends on the dynamics of the relation ship.
Fetish life has many flavors we will say. Some women enjoy that time together in that roll and carry on as normal in public. FetLife.com has a lot of it.
I have been a Dom for 15 years always been alpha type, more on the Sigma level. The huwcow is very interesting fetish, I have seen some of the milking machines and also a bodega aspect of it as well. The women who explore this tend to really enjoy it. Produce a lot of milk. very interesting lifestyle or fetish. totally consensual, if you don’t like it Judge.
No one is judging just a thought which was voiced in a very normal way.
I second Breastie. Men and women enjoy dom/sub relationships. Either one can be the dom, depends on their preferences.
To hand over control to another person can be a very scary thing to do so therefore absolute trust and consent is crucial, and also the assurance it stops immediately when the sub needs to.
The question how dominance and respect can be combined is a very interesting one, so I guess it would be nice to get an answer from the perspective of a dom. How do you dominate and at the same time respect your sub?And thats and open and informative question. Just curious how that works in yhe mind and it might also create more understanding.
I guess you dominate and respect by sticking to the agreed boundaries of how each wants to play / act. What might look disrespectful to an outsider could be exactly what Sub has asked for. In this way Hucow no different to any other power play kink
That’s a vast topic, giving a Dominant perspective :
Bdsm or hucow kink first thing first is consent and respect is mutual. A D/s starts with subs needs and it’s a power sharing dynamic where one give (with consent) power to other but don’t mislead by it as power sharing is equal as both can stop a scene or dynamic at any time. Another most important factor is what is agreed to, subs totally have right to define their limits and boundaries and they can and should negotiate them or in a scene. These must be respected and practice so calling names in or out of a scene (normally negotiate at start pet names or sub names) so the protocols. Bdsm is a philosophy which is way more mental than sexual or physical and it’s start with subs needs and growth if no growth it just end up in mess and broken subs. Stay safe all
It’s a common misconception a sub/slave has no voice in a dynamic which is the opposite. There are levels to D/S, the same within our own ANR/ABF kink.
Prior to entering a dynamic the sub should vet their potential dom. There are discussions of what each is looking for and expectations before they both consent to the dynamic. Yes the sub has to 100% feel comfortable relinquishing whatever aspect they chose to hand over to their Dom. A good Dom/Domme actually cares for their sub, they should be checking in with them and creating a safe space. A good Dom/Domme isn’t entering a dynamic to have a power trip and abuse their sub/slave. A real dynamic is based on trust, communication, honesty, and respect. We have to remember this is a consensual agreement. Anyone can pull out at anytime.
In power dynamics, both people have a voice even as a hucow, baby boy, baby girl, sissy; everyone consents to the dynamic.
@bella3 Well put Bella. The Dom has the responsibility to the sub to make them feel safe and protected.🤗🤗
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