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Do you like men who persist? Or is your first answer your final answer?
I’m only asking because in some instances, you maybe be not in the mood for a conversation or your put off by something on a mans profile or message or you would like to be convinced to be motivated to engage further with said man.
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Absolutely not. Men “persisting” is the reason some of them get blocked or ignored. No means no. Simple.
I can only speak for myself but if someone kept persisting, I would grow to despise and disrespect them very quickly.
What you’re really asking is if women want to be pestered and beaten down by messages until they give up and respond or meet up with a guy. The answer is a resounding, fuck no.
I understand
but you can’t speak for all ladies in my opinion, some like the chase and some don’t which I totally understand.
Ffs so why ask the question at all then?
I’m just reading the room, and you gave your input so thanks.
I have to agree with the ladies
If at first you don’t succeed
DO NOT try try again!!!
Just take the hint, be a gentleman and leave the lady be…….. if she changes her mind then she can always contact you!
Good luck 👍
So Suzie
“If at first, you don’t succeed try, try and try again.”
was one Big Lie? Lol
I think that only applies to certain scenarios….. like passing your driving test!! Not repeatedly messaging a woman! 😉
Good point 😂😉
This thread is going smoothly 😬
Jay: With your attitude you’re a perfect example why guys get blocked immediately by the ladies, they’re not trying to be chased and they don’t want to be harried by people that they don’t want to know.
Also there is a whole lot more guys than ladies here so the ladies get to choose who they want to get to know , and if they don’t choose you, just keep it moving.I think there is an exception when continued pursuing should be considered.
If dialogue has occurred and the conversation has gone smoothly.
Then one person gently turns down the other person for a reason that they have communicated. I think it is ok to say something like, “if you change your mind or something changes, let me know. Thank you”.
But that is as far as I would take it with someone without losing my own dignity or trying to wear them down with constant attempts asking the same thing over and over like a child.
Just my two cents.
But a firm no, always means no.
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