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Gentlemen, I know this has been covered before in many threads, but it seems to be a continuing problem:
We, as men, need to respect the women on this site. When we do, they will respect us more. It is a reciprocal, and easily broken, cycle.
If you are a guy that is on here only to look at pictures of breasts and harass women or here because of a sexual kink only, we don’t need or want you here.
If that is all you re looking for, here is a website perfect for you:
THIS site (ABFHeaven) is for those looking for serious relationships and truly intimate connections. Those looking for lifetime partners or someone special to share the ABF/ANR experience with, with sex or not. This site is more than just a dating or hook-up site. It is a community. It is a gateway for those seeking a level of intimacy unable to be achieved even through sex.
If there is a sexual kink involved, discuss it in private messaging ONLY after it has been something agreed upon during the trust-earning process of communication, and ONLY between the two of you.
I am on other sites for ANR as well. They are trying to be like this one. Every one of those sites are dead compared to this one.
This site has a thriving, supportive, open community that has been unable to be achieved anywhere else. It is a testament to the hard work of the site creator/admin and his moderators.
WE, as men, need to understand that we have a responsibility to the women, and ourselves, to be our best selves. Most especially if we are serious about finding a match on this site.
Sure, we will get disappointed. Sure, we will be blocked by women for reasons we will never learn. Sure, there will be conversations that seem to go well then abruptly end. Sure, there will be some interactions that only wind up being friends.
IT IS ALL PART OF THE PROCESS OF FINDING THAT MATCH! If the woman we approach isn’t open to talking with us, it means (in the most simple terms possible) that she obviously wasn’t the one we are looking for.
Us, as men, not adhering to the tenents of basic common decency and common sense is hurting everyone.
There are those who create profiles, stir things up, then disappear. There are those who don’t seem to get the hint and continue to be idiots towards everyone. This only hurts everyone.
The creator/admin of this site and others do their best to get rid of those that do those things, but they are overwhelmed.
Let’s change the direction of this site by acting in accordance with the site’s original intention: respect, common courtesy, common sense, and without broad-stroke biases.
Thanks Corey.
Actually, it isn’t white knighting at all. Men need to talk other men who aren’t respectful because those men don’t listen to women.
I,for one, am happy to see a man take a platform. I only wish it reached those it was directed to.
To be honest Corey, people want a variety of things from this site. Not every woman is looking for a full on relationship. I would just be happy if people were honest and open about their intentions and communicate properly.
This site is many things for many people. One persons kink is another persons desire. We are all different. Relish the diversity. I enjoy seeing a milky breast as much as anyone else. Even dripping or squirting ones. If you find something offensive, don’t interact with that person. If bad contact Michael.
We don’t need no high school cliques.
We certainly don’t need “the Handmaids Tale”.The milkmaid’s tale might be interesting though 🤔
Well, you are not the only person on the site to consider. This isn’t a porn site, there are tons of those out there with milky and leaking breasts for you to visit. I don’t want to see it at all and I think it’s clear that it makes many women and a lot of men uncomfortable, when it occurs on the site in real time in more “public” areas of the site. This isn’t anyone’s only fans dite, if you want that, go psy for it. You can ogle the media on here and you can private message those people on the site and enjoy whatever you want with them privately. Uh, and this is not about diversity.
If this is to be a place where women feel comfortable and safe, then chat and chat cafe are not the place for pumping live videos, licking breast milk, intentionally sexually arousing men or squirting milk images. If this is going to be someone’s only fans site, then Michael should start charging you men for all the free porn.
I don’t feel safe often… from women cyberstalking me, messaging and harassing my friends. I really don’t know even who does it, I just know mysterious people, women, from here are doing it. I haven’t had a man in here threaten my personal physical security
@ingessodantril well said Corey, thank you.
@grogman You missed the boat on this one. Time to rethink. This is a dating and relationship site. @Natasha is absolutely correct. This is not a porn site and should never be used as one. If people wish to share pictures and photos individually, go for it, but there is no room for it in chat or audio chat. Never has been. That’s not what this site is about.Diversity has nothing to do with it. Grogman that post was a swing and a miss. lol
We need to raise the level of this site back to where it was previously. It’s sad to see what it has dropped to lately.
Hmmmm… I’ve been on this site for over six years. Must have been a different highbrow site before then
@rachyj “A Milkmaids Tale”? Could be an interesting series.😉
@natasha, @flowrgardn
Thank you ladies for your input. Inspirational always. It’s good to have friends that recognize that I’m not much of a baseball player.⚾️😜I’m on here to make friends and enjoy comradeship. I don’t think the site needs a puritanical bent. Nor does it need to lean the other direction or another direction. My 2 cents.
I”m not looking for a Puritanical, or any other, religious bend to this place. I am not a religious man.
I haven’t been on this site long, but I am noticing changes that have been happening and I have seen both men and women complain about it.
I didn’t think the women would appreciate a post coming across as “man-splaining” to them.
Any guys who have an issue with this post can ignore it, as they likely already have others on this topic.
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