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Just jumping in here. I enjoy being at breast and my other half is willing because she knows I enjoy it. The issue is her nipples are fairly sensitive and tend to get overstimulated relatively quickly. It’s ofcourse worse if I have a beard or stubble as my facial hair grows in pretty sharp, so when even plain snuggling is on the table I make sure to shave right before, I use facial lotion to soften what I can. Even with that her nipples overstimulate fairly easily and I don’t particularly like the idea of having her remain uncomfortable or in pain for my sake. She does on occasion enjoy some tugging when the mood hits and of course we can do more in those moments. My question is is there anything that can make it more comfortable for her? If anyone has any onsite or experiences they’d like to shared I’d be greatful.
Also sorry for the nervous rambling.
I would check out some of the posts on here regarding proper latching techniques. A proper latch involves the nipple being far enough back that it shouldn’t cause overstimulation. I know for me personally my man can latch on for a good while but if he starts messing with my nipples specifically then yes they get overstimulated.
@anrmi is spot on! Sucking nipple vs suckling breast!
For the beard issue, this might be a decent workaround? Remember the COVID-era masks? Take one of them thicker fabric ones and cut a hole for your lips/mouth and the movement! (Make sure her skin is not allergic to the mask material!)
Here is my best advice. Never clamp down on the nipple, it’s not a straw, and your facial hair shouldn’t touch the nipple or her areola if you’re doing it right.
Try this thought to make it easy and sexy to remember: ****Latching is like a combination of lickinv and sucking at the same time!****
1) stick your tongue out so it covers your bottom teeth. 2) open as wide as possible and get all the nipple and areola into your mouth.
3) Apply suction, but just a little!
4) Now move your tongue in a wave like, licking motion but only enough so that your bottom teeth are never bared and can’t scrape or bite her.So a proper latch is less overstimulating than sitting at the nipple. I do try to avoid my beard directly on the nipple as that was been stated as an irritant in the past. I am aware of sucking vs suckling, but clarity is always appreciated.
Not sure we have any cloth masks left, but I will definitely keep that in mind.
I will definitely have to try that last bit.
Also, apologies for the delayed responses I got called into work yesterday.
You are on the right track! (I commend you for seeking clarification!)
On a serious note: are you looking for ABF (or ANR, even) or just appreciate breasts? Also the same question for your lady. If you find answers to those (and both have yes for answer) then you should pursue ABF.
Either way, all the very best!
Not shockingly yes I have an I interest in ABF/ABR however it is not something my wife would seek out on her own, she engages on occasion when the mood hits and allows some play while cuddling, but isn’t shy to let me know when it’s too much for her, which is good, I’d much rather her speak up.
That being said, I am not seeking additional partners (short or long term), as we both would have to be on the same page before either of us moved forward with anything. Not that we haven’t discussed similar topics. Though if an opportunity came up, we would likely discuss it. As we have discussed similar topics in the past.
I’m just happy to be apart of the community.
Thank you for your insight!
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