ABF/ANR Dating & Relationships
The word “orgasm” originates from the ancient Greek orgasmos, meaning to swell with moisture and heat. Continue reading “Ooooohhh! Orgasms, Sex Magick, and the Lost Art of Pleasure”
I couldn’t help but wonder—if we are what we eat, what about what we write? Could the act of putting pen to paper (or fingers to keyboard) be as intimate, as revealing, as downright orgasmic as the acts we dream up? Continue reading “More Than Words: How Writing Erotica Awakens the Mind, Body, and Desire”
Masturbation, a deeply personal act, has journeyed through centuries of stigma and suppression to emerge as a celebrated aspect of human sexuality. What was once condemned as a grave sin is now recognised as a healthy expression of self-love and intimacy, bridging the gap between personal well-being and relational fulfillment. Continue reading “From Secret Sin to Self-Love: The Liberation of Masturbation and Sexual Well-being”
My exploration of history, anthropology, and sacred sexuality has deepened, transforming not just my research but also my personal journey as a willing “guinea pig.” Last summer, my studies into ancient resurrection rites led me back to the dawn of civilization, to the rituals of ancient Sumer and Egypt. Here, I uncovered a fascinating practice: the sacred act of drinking from the breast of a priestess, who embodied the goddess. Continue reading “Awakening the Goddess Within: The Sacred Power & Divine Femininity in my Own Lactation Journey”
The transition from one year to the next has long been seen as a sacred moment—a bridge between past and future, closure and renewal. Across cultures, people mark this time with rituals designed to honor endings and invite fresh beginnings. Continue reading “Sacred Sexuality and Rituals to End the Year and Embrace the New”
Christmas celebrations like decorating with holly, putting up Christmas trees, and kissing under the mistletoe are rooted in ancient fertility rituals. These are all symbolic acts to celebrate the fertility of the earth and the approach of the sowing season. Continue reading “Unwrapping the Origins of Christmas: From Pagan Pleasures to Modern Traditions”
There was a time when women were worshipped as goddesses, revered as life-givers, creators, and sensual beings. Their bodies were sacred temples, their sexuality a force of power and creation although they were also feared, as man fears that which he cannot understand. Continue reading “Reclaiming the Goddess: Empowering Women to Embrace Their Sexuality”
Healthy sexuality is an essential aspect of our overall well-being, yet it often remains shrouded in mystery, shame, and repression. This is especially true when it comes to the taboo subject of erotic lactation or ABF/ANR, which society views as a kink or fetish. Continue reading “Healthy Sexuality: Embracing Our Shadows and Unlocking Authentic Desire”
In a world as turbulent and fast-paced as ours, the need for love, healing, and gratitude feels more pressing than ever. Every human heart longs for connection—an experience of love that transcends loneliness, fear, and pain. After all this is the reason that has driven many of us here, that yearning for love and our elusive soulmate, like in the Bible’s most erotic love poem the “Song of Songs” where the bride (the divine feminine creation life force) seeks our bridegroom (the soul). But under the mask of “love” or searching for a partner, I’ve also noticed how all of us actually need deep healing from things we do not talk about. Continue reading “Ancient healing through gratitude and the divine feminine”
As the final days of October draw us into Halloween, we stand at a threshold, a powerful transition into the dark half of the year. This time, from Samhain to Beltaine, has long been honored as the season of shadows, mystery, and potent feminine energy. Continue reading “Embracing the Liminality of Feminine Darkness for Transformation and Rebirth”
The earliest known classic reference to breast milk comes from Homer, the ancient Greek poet, in his epic The Iliad. Written in the 8th century BCE, The Iliad contains scenes of maternal care and nurturing, which include mentions of breast milk. Continue reading “Reviving Ancient Practices: Resurrection & Personal Benefits of Induced Lactation”
Space and standing your ground when it comes to people respecting the healthy boundaries you set are crucial not just in love, but for all types of relationships. Continue reading “Why Giving SPACE Is Important For ALL Relationships”
An annular eclipse, sometimes known as a “ring of fire” eclipse, is taking place today on October 2. It will be visible from Argentina and Chile, while a partial eclipse will be seen in parts of the Pacific, other parts of South America and from Antarctica. Continue reading “Swallowing the sun: remembering the Celts and Norse in today’s eclipse”
I identify as a ‘black sheep’, the family problem child or scapegoat; an outcast within my family’s dynamic. Continue reading “Black sheep heroes: dysfunctional families in childhood trauma and adult romantic relationships”
The Epic of Gilgamesh, an ancient Mesopotamian text, dates back to circa 2100-1200 BCE and features themes of heroism, mortality, and the quest for eternal life. Continue reading “The beginning of all…Sumerian Symbolism”
Semen retention is an ancient practice embedded in spiritual traditions like Tantra, Lurianic Kabbalah, and Ayurveda. Continue reading “Semen Retention: A Sacred Practice of Spiritual and Physical Balance”
Esther Perel, the renowned psychotherapist and sexologist, often highlights how modern relationships are more challenging due to the erosion of community ties. Continue reading “Community: a necessary ingredient in finding & maintaining a healthy relationship”
Isis, the ancient goddess of Egypt, embodies the nurturing forces of nourishment, healing, and divine wisdom. Her sacred connection to breast milk weaves a seductive thread of symbolism across centuries and cultures. Continue reading “Milk of Salvation: Isis’ Divine Gift of Breast Milk for Healing, Wisdom, and Vitality”
Throughout history, independent, powerful and confident women have often been cast as witches and prostitutes, Continue reading “Men’s fear of women: the real taboo behind adult erotic lactation”
It’s almost 2 am here in the Emerald Isle… I was going to share a different blog post, Continue reading “Made for this: soul journeys & authenticity”
Following on from my last post where I mentioned the Bible’s most erotic love poem, the Song of Songs, attributed to King Solomon, I’d like to share this beautiful video and a brief explanation to wish you all a beautiful day. Continue reading “Bible’s Most Erotic Love Poem – Solomon’s Song of Songs”
A few nights ago, under the moonlight and surrounded by winds that threatened to unleash a powerful storm, I received a poem from a dear friend and mentor, someone who has become the father I wish I’d had, despite the distance between us—he lives all the way in Canada. Continue reading “Where the mind is without fear”
Why do we have sex? Take a moment now and actually think about the reasons you have sex, then write them Continue reading “Sex: the conversation we’re not having”
Sharing a poem by a friend and respected colleague, poet Tom Hirons on the wild god that lives in all men, and that really needs to be “let out”. Continue reading “Sometimes a Wild God”
Good morning, everyone!
I’ve been truly moved by the comments and private messages some of you have sent my way. Continue reading “I am Wildborn. Moonlight gratitude and reflections…”
The full moon has long been a symbol of mystery, power, and transformation in various cultures. Among the most captivating phenomena is the supermoon, which occurs when the moon is at its closest point to Earth, appearing larger and brighter than usual. Continue reading “Honouring the feminine and milk during tonight’s blue supermoon…”
