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Mira met someone who got her thinking about sexual arousal and abf.
1) are our breasts negatively charged and are men’s organs positively charged ?
2) if yes is that why they get attracted to breasts ?
3) is everyone made this way or is it just some people ?
4) does this help ladies not get mad when they get aroused while nursing ?
5) they get aroused and orgasm while the lady is left wanting without culmination if she doesn’t come? Mira is sort of upset about this .. might actually ruin a good meet up she thinks to herself ..
Opposites attract, likes repel. One of my favorite science lessons with magnets.
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6) do some women need abf to orgasm naturally and take time to warm up to a release?7) do some men need abf to feel closer to their partner emotionally and physically and hence are always seeking that bond ?
This is a judge free zone so no trolling please.. people can answer honestly. Because I think this is a fair question that holds back a lot of people. In this day and age, sex is risky and some men/women hesitate to have abf perhaps because of this.
There is certainly a sexual aspect to ABF and breasts, but it does not have to be the focus, or even an aspect of ABF, if that’s what both (or either) parties choose.
In my limited experience, I have had 3 ABF encounters, none of which involved any sort of sexual connection, however the second one certainly could have as the lady was getting quite excited mid-session. I would have 100% wanted to have ABF of a sexual nature with my wife and find that it would be an amazing addition to any sexual encounter.
It is totally natural and expected for me to get sexually excited by breasts. Just like in real life, that does not mean that those feeling have to be acted upon, but they exist nonetheless.
It is 100% reasonable to expect that if the man is getting sexual pleasure that the woman should expect reciprocal attention.
According to the AMJ, 2% of women are able to have full climax via nipple stimulation. I knew one such woman. She told me she actually preferred a nipple manufactured orgasm as to a vaginal orgasm.
Personally, suckling can certainly be “Upstairs window shopping for downstairs goods”. When I was younger, though I was certainly happy with just suckling, naturally I enjoyed it more when Roman hands and Russian fingers were allowed to slither across her satiny sex pea. Be that as it may, suckling is more about human intimacy, not sex.
Sucker for nipples: The question wasn’t if abf was about sex rather the poll was if it’s ok if one is aroused by it.
You can override the excitement for sure and it’s certainly very very soothing whether one climaxes or not.
I asked this question because it’s sort of a central pillar around which we tend to get stuck.
To be aroused or not to be aroused.. is it nurturing or is it sexual.. it can be both. Many times men orgasm once or twice and then they are done nursing and the session is over .. leaving the woman hanging.
@stevebeets I could hug you for your honest answer! So sweet of you to say it out aloud. 🤗😘🥰
I don’t think there is any sufficient magnetic force in our bodies to cause magnetic issues. If there were I’d make sure I was charged the right way to be attracted to breasts 🙂
Hi art, we aren’t discussing magnetism per se. If all of the ion changes inside were magnetic, I would probably be stuck to the ground ..?
Biologically we do have a lot of ions in our body that run every kind of biochemical process, calcium 2+ ions are secondary messengers transducing signals in muscles and other tissues. K1+ and Na1+ ions are responsible for nerve conduction just to name a few. Reiki is based on a similar thought process I think so it’s not completely unscientific my forum post. I thank you for your feedback tho.
Plus I want to add that we need to go far beyond just casual sexual pleasure to experience higher states of consciousness which are related to how we treat our inner and outer body and how we treat others. This post is just a fun poll on something I have always been curious about.
ABF and ANR is very intimate, physically and emotionally. So with right connection, it can be arousing and may become a complete intimate relationship.
@sind Of course! I find that males and females are worlds apart in how we experience both life and sexual pleasure. But the same can be said for just each individual person. There is a podcast about sad nipple syndrome that I listened to which helped explain why my wife for many years could not possibly have her nipples touched, and why it mostly continues to this day. We are all different and individual and that’s both OK and also makes the world an interesting place.
I find a double edged sword where half or more of personal pleasure can be derived from the act of giving touch. Or at least it is enjoyable and fun to explore another’s body and feel physically their skin as well as feel the pleasure that I am giving to another person, experiencing their pleasure. But it also doesn’t completely replace receiving touch and pleasure as well. This can be interpreted as both sexual or non-sexual tender touch. In the case of ABF that would be the suckling and breast massaging from the male and cuddling, hair stroking, etc. from the female.
Now, it would be wonderful if everyone matched perfectly, so that asexual people would always be with asexual people, nymphomaniacs with nymphomanics, ABF enthusiasts with ABF enthusiasts, and so on. But that is not possible and so we are left with sites like this where we find many individuals who seek out what they are missing in some way. This should be open and celebrated in the world, but our puritanical founders have created a society where it is still taboo.
ABF has the ability to allow people to melt away from the stress of the world in a manner that is unmatched in its tenderness, but since it is still not fully accepted, it often comes with a sense of guilt or fear.
@stevebeets yes the skin is the largest immune organ in our body and many kind souls are starved for touch and validation. For a man/woman giving and receiving pleasure should be mutual but some men forget the woman’s needs and she’s not going to demand satisfaction because it’s supposed to be all about nurturing and supporting him.
But it’s really nice when men care, offer a drink after a session or just thank her for taking the time to nurse them.
The simple acts of kindness go a long way and say a lot about the character of the person.
You have a creative writing ability too so you should explore that as well.. 🤗 Yes the puritans have a lot to answer for 🙂
Love the whole para about like not finding like partners and then being left with a void they can’t fill in any other way !! Then the whole guilt of going outside to fulfill a very normal bodily need. Awesome I love your honesty . 🌷
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