Location no longer matters- September 2026

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    david
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    • Male
    • Looking for: Female
    • USA

    After reviewing the active members of this site it has become apparent that the location should no longer matters due to the over saturation of male members to female members.

    Approximately 14,000 male members who are seeking female members are on this site compared to 2500 female members seeking male. To put that into simple context, 2500 divided into 14,000 equals 0.178, or 18%. Now that’s 18%. What does that mean. According to google, top universities like MIT, Harvard and Yale except less than 10% of students, while some schools who are not ivy league but still competitive also select a small amount are:

    Boston Univeristy,MA- 11%
    Davidson UNiversity, NC- 17%
    Geogia Institute of Technology- 16%

    None of these applicants who get accepted to MIT, Harvard or Yale turn down their acceptance because of the location.

    For men the chances are so slim on this site most men probably don’t care the location because they are the one applying and this site is quite competitive.

    comment if you think location should matter when there are so many men on here.

    #809345
    Nick
    Participant
    • Male
    • Looking for: Female
    • USA
    • New York

    So Abfheaven is as competitive as any Ivy League colleges!!! 😁

    #809348
    Nipnibbler2025
    Participant
    • Male
    • Looking for: Female
    • USA
    • Florida

    Just curious, where did you get your numbers?

    I think you should be dividing 2500 women into the total number of people, which is 16500. That comes out to 6.6% women, or about 94 men per 6 women, or 15 men per woman. So yeah, lots of competition.

    That said, math was never my strong point. 🙂

    #809355
    milkywhey
    Participant
    • Female
    • Looking for: Male & Female
    • USA
    • Washington state

    Don’t assume all the men are in competition. Many didn’t even make it to the starting gate and it’s easier to make a fake male profile than a female since women have to verify with a voice message.

    Write in complete sentences, be respectful, make it easy to meet and then you are among a much smaller percentage of the men. I know of many men on this site who have met multiple women.

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