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  • #786404
    Dean 4 ABF
    Participant
    • Male
    • Looking for: Female
    • United Kingdom

    Re: The Spicy Chat room and forum posts.

    Men: are so desperate, many alter egos in there.
    Each one clinging on for some hope.

    Women: know that the men are desperate and play on it, always tempting, always encouraging, much less likely to interact beyond the display of “Look at what you will never be able to get”.

    Meanwhile, real life and reality is so much more than watching desperate men seeking unobtainable women every day, for years.

    Guys, just be yourselves and try not to be so desperate and obvious.

    Ladies, Just be honest, just be open to the fact that you are just leading the men on a fantasy ride to nowhere.

    Psychologists will be watching with glee at all this subject matter.
    Shrinks will see it playing out whilst you all get older each day and never get any further.

    With ABF (like anything else) success is not going to be found in your laptop or tablet, despite the pretty pictures.

    Success is in life, living it and loving it.
    Please stay sane and recognise reality.

    I wish you all the best of luck, but hope you see my point.

    See you all in “actuality”.

    Dean x

    #786418
    Milkloveoverall
    Participant
    • Male
    • Looking for: Female
    • United Kingdom

    Its the truth mate

    #786432
    TJR
    Participant
    • Male
    • Looking for: Female
    • USA
    • Pennsylvania

    With that outlook, you will likely reap what you sow. Regardless of whether your analysis (or, more accurately, judgements and accusations) are true, there ARE many people on here who are genuine and approachable. The interest we all share is certainly not a common or “mainstream” desire, therefore it will absolutely take time and patience to find what and who you are looking for.

    Side note: there is definitely some truth to your assertion that we need to live life in reality and not spend all our time on this or any other website hoping to find that elusive “white rabbit” we all fantasize about. The majority of my own experiences with nursing have developed from open communication with women that I’ve met in normal everday life as opposed to women I’ve met on this site. The “R” in ANR stands for RELATIONSHIP. And there are too many men on this site who assume that the women on here are going to rip off their bra for anyone who comes along and expresses interest. If you actually take time to get to know someone as a human being (rather than simply a set of breasts to fulfill your kinks and fantasies) BEFORE jumping into deeper and more personal topics, you might actually find that there are many approachable women on this site.

    Just my two cents.

    #786476
    David
    Participant
    • Male
    • Looking for: Female
    • USA
    • New Jersey

    Thanks Captain Obvious

    #786477
    Sam
    Participant
    • Male
    • Looking for: Female
    • USA
    • Texas

    I am much more likely to agree with TJR on this one. Too many of us men have shallow investment in mind when we try to engage with a possible partner. And getting the prerequisite knowledge of a potential partner before the beautiful intimacy we all crave would seem to be almost non-existant. As men, most of us do, mostly, expect to nurse on our first meeting. You said it very aptly, TJR, when you said, “And there are too many men on this site who assume that the women on here are going to rip off their bra for anyone who comes along and expresses interest.” It is very sad that we have even put that thought in your heads. I agree it is hard to wait those few days (maybe weeks) to finally experience the bliss we love, but it is essential… and worth it. I hope we all become more excited AND more patient, caring, and loving while we wait. Bliss is worth it. I just know it is.

    #786489
    Jon
    Participant
    • Male
    • Looking for: Female
    • USA
    • California

    Looking for long term breastfeeding relationship and i have long hair, i will probably relocate if i find a long term partner

    I kinda think its funny how so many females end up deleting their own profiles because they realize how everyone on here is fake or maybe because they realize nobody will relocate to them, but honestly i don’t know but I do see lots of deleted profiles on my inbox and those are only the ones I notice because I actually tried messaging them

    (Im just a regular guy looking for a regular girl and im not trying to be mean or offend anyone but it seems like the majority of females think that every other guy is earning over $100k salary a year but according to the census data only about 18% of men in the whole United States of America only earn over $100k a year)

    To me this website is more like texting its not like writing a college essay with perfect grammar that our smartphones will automatically put the correct grammar for you but I specifically choose not to have perfect grammer spell check because this is more like texting and whenever I text somebody im not using proper grammar, its very sad and also funny how people on here reject to meet up in person because of my grammar lmfao

    Im not political because both sides are crazy, Republicans wear maga hats and democrats wear face masks in 2026 after covid is over basically as a maga hat so ya both sides wear things to show which side of the division club their in to keep America divided

    Because woman have like 28 or more different cues that make themselves get attracted to a man, but men have like only 5 cues that attract us to woman so blame that on biology not us men, so yes were not the same type of animal were completely different when coming to biology and what attracts men to woman, and woman to men

    I totally respect yalls accomplishments in life getting degrees an stuff but it doesn’t make you more physically attractive like the way woman think men are more physically attractive by whatever degrees or how much money they earn

    but yet you hear females saying how with the same photo of a man that earns 100k is hot an sexy but the same photo of the man earning 36k a year is ugly….men 100% don’t think this way, a woman making 36k or 100k is the same attractiveness, this seems to be the biggest denial in woman that somehow your income attributes to your physical body which are two different things 🤔

    Bill Gates, & Elon Musk are very ugly physically especially without a shirt sheesh but I keep hearing how attractive they are lmfao and each one of them are dating young woman, bill gates even paid the tuition for a young girl he liked lmfao and they can’t even keep their own wives happy

    Older woman who are with high value men are with them because they got with the man when he was young & broke, they didn’t get together after he was already considered a high value man earning over 100k a year, this is another big thing females cannot distinguish and are in denial over this fact, this is the lie that social media has taught yall etc that every female deserves a high value man lol but all men don’t deserve an Instagram super model ? Lol doesn’t that sound funny coming from the opposite point of view, I don’t even have social media but im just trying to make a point that most woman don’t ever think of, like men are pigs for bringing up Instagram models but woman aren’t pigs for demanding what your salary is before showing a single photograph of themselves on this website is just as bad as men wanting Instagram models…

    Funny how probably since around 2010 the 20’s have become the new 30’s where back in the day if a woman was not married by the age of 30 that people would get worried about her that she may be single forever…..but now its normal for woman to be almost 40 an still single trying to get the same high value men that they once could’ve gotten when they were 25 but instead pursued other things instead of finding a man. A mans physical prime is from ages 25-35 but men usuallv don’t become high value earners making over 100k until age 45 is the average age range for men to become high value earners an which these men want to start families an get their wives pregnant to pass on their legacies so this is why high value men want to marry woman around ages 25 just like in the last 100 years of American lifestyle

    ………i love how so many profiles if not all say locals only but almost 99% of the time whenever i click on their friends list they will have a bunch of out of state friends lmfao such hypocrites or ill get a message from a females profile which clearly informs all us men that they are looking for females only on their profiles but yet they are messaging me when im not allowed to initially message them seems unfair……

    Or if yall finally started expanding to further away partners than please update yalls profile from locals only etc

    Lol lets face it if lots of television shows are showing how all the gay men, kids an woman are always all smarter than the husband or regular guy and if I can update my profile while being portrayed as a dumbass as the new stereotype for regular guys than maybe all you masculine boss babes can do the same lol

    woman may have access to sex, but a man has access to relationships

    (Someone asked me to explain this)
    It means a few things
    but usuallv woman
    think thev have all the
    control in relationshiops
    but they usually only
    have control over when
    the relationship
    becomes sexual and
    the man has control if
    thev choose to stay
    around turning them
    into a real relationship
    rather than just a date…
    Yes of course woman
    have free will and can
    leave as well but
    traditionally it doesn’t
    work this way after
    woman started having sex before marriage

    Woman be acting like just because they can go out and get sex they think it means the men will stay around forever but that ain’t the case….

    Just because you have a degree or can pay your own bills doesn’t make you more attractive, it means your a functioning adult, maybe females think this way about men, but men do not think this way about females so please get a clue about what men find actually attractive…..

    Maybe try being feminine and nice and giving attention is a far better way to receive love than by receiving it only, please stop saying ive got a degree this an that being powerful and masculine like a man…a lady with a degree an a job can still be feminine but it seems like yall just wanna be in the masculine side of it proving how much yall don’t need a man but yet still want a traditional relationship with a man makes no sense….

    Let’s be real most men making over 100k salary is a high value man which is gonna want to pass on his legacy so if your already passed age 30 wanting kids and the geriatric age to have problematic pregnancy is age 35…..so far 99% of the woman ive met on here think im cute without my beard but they all want high value men but cannot even produce offspring to pass on his legacy…any normal guy on here earning 40-50k salary seems to be no longer interesting after woman on here find out how much they make even though they are already passed their prime themselves and are in denial of high value men earing over 100k wanting to marry woman who are still in their prime from ages 18-29 to be able to start a family to get pregnant to pass on their legacy etc and all the woman on here think they still deserve a high value perfect man when they themselves are no longer in their prime…Well it seems almost impossible to find anyone local so I decided to branch out so maybe in about a year after we get to know each other better ill be able to relocate to someone ive been taking to on here………….”I just read your profile its scary and $40,000 to $50,000 in California you either have a roommate or homeless. In some areas in California $100,000 is poverty. It seems like you’re looking for a place to live.” So a lady tells me this in private messages and I send her a screenshot of the census data of the percentage of men earning over 100k and this message “22% of men in California only make over 100,000 so i don’t know what your talking about please explain???” But of course I get no reply…So if your looking for the top 22% of men please be honest and stop being in denial and honestly answer to yourself if your actually the top 22% of woman in California because if you are your probably an Instagram super model 😃

    #786490
    Jon
    Participant
    • Male
    • Looking for: Female
    • USA
    • California

    (Here are the average replies that i get on here,some good, mostly bad lmfao)

    “Hi Jon, I really like your profile. An exhausting read but speaks truth:)”

    “Hi Jon, Im Belle…Oh gosh you’re soo far….what does woman may have access to sex but the man has access to relationships mean?”

    “Hello , I love your profile and I read it to the end I agree with all but one thing not all women are the same and men are scared of a woman who can work on her own car that has been my problem that and I am legally deaf but I digress I am most interested in getting to know you as money should not be the base of your relationship. Money is a material thing that can change at any moment but the man is what women should be focused on who he is as a person not his belongings as your belongings don’t make you who you are and that is who I would like to get to know. Feel free to ask me anything in the interest of getting to know me if you would like and please tell me a little bit more about you.”

    “I keep crying in your profile how you don’t have any money.”

    “I have a fiance. Not to mention,  im not into a relationship with anr.”

    “Wow your profile is quite the bitter rant!  Im not interested and thank you for reaching out.  Best of luck with your search Jon”

    “Also, your profile is chaotic”

    #786492
    Jon
    Participant
    • Male
    • Looking for: Female
    • USA
    • California

    Lots of woman’s profiles are 5 years old and are still searching for that perfect man that they see all over Instagram or social media to come swoop them off their feet but yet they keep getting older which makes it harder to secure a man, and those breasts in that profile photo are now 5 years older so they no longer look exactly like they do in that profile photo anymore….we all are lonely an want a partner but it seems like the majority of woman on here want the impossible perfect man

    #786494
    Jon
    Participant
    • Male
    • Looking for: Female
    • USA
    • California

    I block anyone on here if they aren’t interested in me out of respect to them so i don’t accidentally message them again, but anyways ill also block any females profile that’s says looking for woman only, and profiles that say they are happily married or when they message me saying they are married etc, or ill block any female that takes days to reply but yet she’s constantly obviously online…Wow im in shock because I just went into my blocked list and counted them all ive got a total of 278 blocked females on here that aren’t really looking for a man they just here to entertain themselves…I do however respect the owner for creating this website and although it’s a struggle right now i bet in a few years this website will have a lot more users enabling the owner to get advertising so he starts making a profit off this website.

    #786497
    SirNurseALot
    Participant
    • Male
    • Looking for: Female
    • USA
    • Illinois

    Scratching my head. Seriously.

    Trying to figure out heads and/or tails of all of this information.

    Anyone here to help me process all of this? 😆 please 🙏🏻

    #786498
    Jon
    Participant
    • Male
    • Looking for: Female
    • USA
    • California

    “Whoooa I just read some of your profile. I’m so sorry your generalizations about what women want and what men want are not intelligent and I no longer wish to speak to you. Good luck finding a women to tolerate that.”

    #786499
    Jon
    Participant
    • Male
    • Looking for: Female
    • USA
    • California

    If you need to flip a coin to decide what to think im pretty sure that means you need to grow a pair of balls, and im not trying to be mean or offensive im just honestly answering your reply to help process all this like your asking

    #786500
    Jon
    Participant
    • Male
    • Looking for: Female
    • USA
    • California

    My favorite part of her telling me this is that she also told me this before that

    “It’s not me it’s just a pic similar to my size”

    #786502
    Jon
    Participant
    • Male
    • Looking for: Female
    • USA
    • California

    Sirnursealot since your a new profile how about coming back here after a week of trying to communicate with females on here and tell us how successful you are please id love to know and if you don’t reply back after a week it means you failed and didn’t get any breastfeeding females to start a nursing relationship with

    #786503
    Jon
    Participant
    • Male
    • Looking for: Female
    • USA
    • California

    By the way just a new user tip to help your successful journey for your first week is that your already gonna get attacked by a certain amount of females on here claiming you broke the trust of other females by showing yourself on a females breast in your profile picture is breaking thd trust of private photos taken from womans trust in you…even if the photo is generic and not of yourself or anyone you know woman on here will still attack you for it so good luck I cannot wait to hear all your success stories after your first week bro

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