Wish I would had made a beautiful Mistake in My 30’s

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    Blckharlemmann
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    • USA
    • New York

    I am 43 single Black male; no children; never married.

    I always wanted at least 3 children; however due to School and a career in addition to family commitments the Lucky lady in my life has been all but elusive.

    I am actually very fond of mature erudite, wise Women; with all their grey hairs and wrinkles. But the Bioligical clock for having healthy babies becomes a large looming issue.

    So the mooted question is. Should I only date Women under 40 for the sake of having healthy children? Even though young Women may see me as a Yucky Senior citizen…lol Or should I not strees over age?

    Any comments are welcome. Xoxo💘💘💘💘

    #7231
    Taurius
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    • Looking for: Female
    • Denmark

    Perhaps be open to both? I think there is a reduction in the risk of complications associated with having a child for older women who have already had a child, I am no expert though so take it with some salt. You could also consider adoption?

    #7237
    Blckharlemmann
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    • Looking for: Female
    • USA
    • New York

    Thanks Oxwood I am doing extensive Research. I would like to have children of my own. But of course I shouldn’t rule out adoption.

    Thanks you 😊

    #7259
    Nick
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    • Looking for: Female
    • USA
    • New York

    43 is not old. There are many young girls who do like older partner. Keep looking. You will find the right one and can have your children.

    #7272
    Blckharlemmann
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    • Looking for: Female
    • USA
    • New York

    Thanks Nick;

    I’m going to focus on women in their 20’s only because of their fertility. I would like to adopt also; but a Child from a third world country with my own biological children.

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