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Friday morning thoughts.
Lately I think I’ve seen more people looking for an actual relationship vs just the ANR aspect. AKA poking for their forever person.
Plz don’t DM but would love to hear peoples thoughts on finding love vs just ANR. Hope it makes sense.
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Yes LTR seems to be the focus of many women seeking men. Women seeking women or women/men seem less about relationships and more the experience.
For some ANR is kink or fetish, for few its lifestyle. For ANR lifestyle, its good to have a long time monogamous partner where ANR can be integral part of the life.
@tripb so interestingly enough I’m actually seeing more men looking for love
ABF = experiences/meet-ups/occasional nursings/not love/not full time together
ANR = love/every day/live ins/’a couple/ your whole life & lifestyle
HUGE difference between the two
Agree with Latcher . . an ANR is typically a deeper relationship, with nursing at its core, while ABF is usually a more casual act of simply breastfeeding an adult.
When I started my breastfeeding journey i was up for one and done experiences. Now, after I’ve had a variety of experiences (both good and bad) I realize I need thar connection outside of abf to make things more special for me. Am I looking for love? Maybe. I’m certainly looking for more than “breast friends”
It isnt simply because i love nursing that i would want anyone to suckle.
Anr is about connection. Cant have that with any random guy.I was married when I first became aware with ANR/ABF. We had a beautiful relationship until death did us part. ANR/ABF created such a deep bond. It allowed her to share a part of herself with me that nobody else would ever have. I could be totally vulnerable in her presence. Nothing to prove to anyone.
Beyond this, I will not try to describe it, because words do not do it justice.
I hope y’all can experience the depth of such a bond.
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