Doing things from the heart and with our souls…

I recently rejoined after very briefly being on this site in February and “running” due to a very negative experience with an individual here. I seem to be an expert at attracting princes that are really, just frogs. And maybe “frog” is even too good for them (I apologise frogs).

Anyway, I wanted to say hi as I’ll soon have a blog up here, I am having a glass of wine this evening after a cancelled work meet and just doing what I do best, bleeding all over the page as the creative I am. I came to this site initially due to research I needed to do in a cultural context as I am a historian and a wellness coach. I work with history, anthropology, archaeology, mythology, and psychology. But I also work in sacred sexuality, wellness, and with esotericism, being a medium and trained in the Western Esoteric Tradition and womens’ mysteries.

One of my main areas was intimate relationships and used to coach couples, with tantra but also archetypal psychology. I do have some training in somatic therapy too but I don’t do person meets due to people crossing boundaries. Some of you have written to me expecting online sex, or sending inappropriate photos, I do need to state I believe in body, mind soul connections. I am not into any of that. It is very much what is wrong with relationships today and society. Everything happens at surface level and people just don’t want to take the time to get to know people. They just want sex and they want it now, with whoever and in whatever way. Yet, even when they get it…it doesn’t do much for them after a while. I’d like to bring the soul into this site and hopefully, draw attention for men and women to approach intimacy and relationships from a different angle.

For me, every connection is sacred. And I honour special intimate moments, I really do not share lightly nor sleep around (never have never will). But I’d like to ask a favour, for me and all women here because at this point, I feel this needs to be said. This is an ANR/ABF site with a specific focus on finding that special someone. It is not Onlyfans, Chaturbate, or a porn site. And I’m not prude, I have shared intimate photos of myself. But,men and women out there, especially men, if you are not interested in being honest and not looking for anything of substance please, make your intentions known from the onset. I am a caring person, I don’t have much time in my life and I have remained single the last 5 years because I needed it but also because I am horrified at what relationships have become, and the men have encountered. I am far from perfect, I have been accused of perhaps like a child, being too intense, but I am a passionate person. I don’t know how to do things half-ways, so I am flawed in this and perhaps in getting excited when I meet a kindred spirit, but I do deserve honesty and to be treated with respect. We all do.

Due to this, and before the blog comes out, I need to state that I WILL NOT be adding any more friends to my profile. A friend status, whether online or in person needs to be earned. I need to look after my heart, I care about all the people I meet, even when they do not. So I am setting this boundary for now. Please do not take it personally, you can still message me but please refrain if your intentions are not honourable. Everyone deserves a clean slate, and there are men here who have good intentions (or I hope so) but I will be taking my time now to let anyone in, even virtually.