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Jeezuz, I hate the whiny complaining some males do on here. If you’re not having any contact with women on here. Look in the mirror, pull your big boy pants up and admit that some of the problem begins with you.
I once got three messages in a row, in quick succession:
1. Do your nurse your husband?
2. Are you looking for someone to nurse?
3. Can me and my girlfriend nurse on you?Um… no. Gross. 🤢
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Yep women are at no fault here. Every woman on here has complete profiles and are 100% honest about what they want. They also put in effort when chatting.
Oh wait.
BreastFanatic, I don’t think anyone was arguing that women don’t fall under this category. It definitely goes both ways.
This site has done an amazing job weeding out fake profiles, the only troubles left over are just people that aren’t genuine. Some men don’t know how to talk to women, and women have to deal with them which makes it hard to find someone who’s genuine. But of course there’s bound to be women who just waste time.
You all have done a great job getting the site to where it is, now it’s just up to everyone to improve themselves to speed up the process of finding someone in this wonderful community.
I really wish to see more pictures of the guys versus some cartoon. Where are all the hot men?! Oh wait there aren’t any. I don’t see the women being hot either. Come on lottery!!!
There’s a lot of whiney males on here and it just makes me cringe. I almost want to log off sometimes when I encounter it. There’s a few cold and rude women here but I can understand it if every day your inbox is full of “how big are your boobs?” and increasingly hostile pleas for response.
Honestly I wish I could set a picture of me as my avatar but I’ve had instances of men perving on me. As a guy myself. No thank you.
Oh BS…excuses excuses
I don’t know why sharing an anecdote has to be seen as trying to appeal to someone who’s halfway across the country for me. But eh, I shouldn’t have gone off-topic.
If this site was like bumble, I’d be swiping left so much, I’d miss the .5% attractive guys.
I think all men should just accept just like any other dating app, if she’s interested in you, you would definitely know, even if you make the first move, if she responds and engages with you fantastic bring your A Game! But if Instances she doesn’t for whatever reason, leave her alone she’ll stay in contact if she wishes to or not.
Being ignored or ghosted ain’t right no matter what, but it’s a reality that we have to expect, even from a person that initially seen pleasant and a potential.
Sadly, some people are ignorant of basic social skills and graces. And unfortunately, you CAN’T FORCE OR DEMAND THAT from them. But think about it: if a man or a woman doesn’t have any qualms of treating you that way, after you made an effort to put yourself out there (and hopefully you weren’t pushy, rude and/or demanding) then… good riddance. Seriously… You honestly want that kind of person in your life? Someone that can’t properly and basically express themselves, even if they’re not feeling you, not being able to simply send you on your way with a well wish? It’s simple. Goes something like this: “Hey thanks, but sorry, I’m not interested, but good luck.” THAT’S IT. You don’t need a masters or a doctorate in Philosophy or anything like that.
You really want a puffed up, inconsiderate person that thinks they’re the S%@# and think they can treat people any way they please? Obviously not. (See it as… gaining an informed advantage when people like that: show their true colors.) Hey: You’re THEIR loss. Move on to some one WAY better that you deserve.
Peace
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