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I’ve been here for a few weeks getting connected to this amazing community😁 So I decided not to look around for anyone and just learn more about it and see where it takes me.
I don’t know if these questions have been answered before, if so let’s rehash them.If you could give one piece of advice to someone considering their first ANR, what would it be ?
What part of ANR is hardest to explain to someone who has never experienced it ?
How much of the appeal is about the physical experience, and how much is about the feeling of being cared for or needed ?
Is there such a thing as being emotionally ‘too invested’ in an ANR, and how would someone recognize that ?
What would you want a completely inexperienced person to understand before deciding whether ANR is for them ?
What’s something you expected ANR to feel like beforehand that turned out to be completely different ?
Okay, that got more philosophical than I expected 😂 but I’m very thorough.
Answer whichever question catches your attention and bonus points for an answer that makes me think, “I never would have considered that.” 😁
I will take a stab at this.. if I were to give advice which normally isn’t applicable to everyone (because each person’s journey starts out for different reasons).
Disclaimer: Not all my suggestions are applicable to everyone. This is my experience and how I came here that’s all. The numbering below is arbitrary not having to anything to with the numbering on your questions.I would suggest
1) think deeper on why you need this .. is it just novelty or a need? Because the journey is going to be long and frustrating.Enjoy the journey though because you will make great friends and learn a lot if you keep an open mind.
2) if you reached this site because of some incident that acted as a trigger (even though you have long wanted this) try to get to the root of that trigger and heal yourself before you engage in finding a partner for yourself. The healing can happen by reaching out to friends on here. Most people are kind and caring.
3) learn how to latch because it’s not just playing with breasts or just pulling nipples (which can hurt a woman).
4) Nursing is a whole body experience so learn to feel your body and hers. But before that prepare emotionally to getting attached if you are that sort of personality. If you just go through a lot of women then that’s not a problem .
5) please remove the pic of the guy on your profile (it’s good but personally I would put something else). Change your name too.. (controversial comments but there you go if you are asking my honest opinion).
I really appreciate your answers and will definitely take them into consideration.
1) I don’t think I’ll ever know if it’s novelty or a need until I have experiences.
2)this one definitely resonated with me, we all have a past I suppose 😅
3)I definitely know how to latch it’s maybe just the pressure of suction that may need a little more understanding.
4) I’m the kind of person to get attached so I’ll definitely keep an eye on that.
5) I’ll take this one seriously, I’m not here to put anyone off.
Because I’m from the uk and we don’t have breastaurants here and thought it was funnyI’ll change them both soon when I think of something better 👌
No comments are controversial to me and thank you for being straight, I respect that😊
When you reply if you hit on reply next to the person’s post then they get a notice that you posted and can check if they want to respond again.
You profile pic is good, if you like it a lot, please keep it. I chose mine after changing my pics quite a few times until I settled at one. In the same way the name can change so you can experiment until you find a suitable one. All the best in your search!
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