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Connection of minds will spark attraction, thats why.
Physical appearance helps. I am not gonna lie. But i am far from perfect myself. Although my boobs might be… just kidding people!!
But no attraction when there is nothing to talk about.
Not gonna lift my shirt only because you want me to.
What if he lifts his shirt ? I mean skin is attractive all colors, textures and shapes. We all have the same desires to be touched and touch.
Depends on the timing. If its the first thing he does…. like: lets get some action! No thank you.
Cannot remember I said anything about skin colour. Never mentioned any preference or excluded skin tones. Didnt even think about it.I just thought people of all colour have brains to enjoy.
Okay and all the rest too. Just was saying to me connection through the brain comes first.I meant that I love skin and mentioned color because that is further broadening one’s landscape of experiences to include everybody. I didn’t mean any offense.
One way I have found to meet people in the middle is to put myself in their shoes. This may mean I don’t immediately post a response because it takes time to process something they have said.
This doesn’t mean our mind is slow it just means that we are thinking through things when the whole world is reacting to something.
I had to learn this over the years.. initially I would have friction with my dad because he behaved a certain way now I see the 18-26 year olds thinking that I am not keeping up with the times.
Age is not respected even if their wisdom comes from life experience.
Sometimes people just amplify the voices of others because it’s easier to be with other people who are louder.. when that happens I just calm down because I can imagine myself in their shoes when my opinion may be the only one in the room and people are not understanding my point of view. This has happened to me and it’s not a great feeling especially when you have a different perspective than the majority of voices.
Just because one is in the majority doesn’t mean that it’s the truth and just because one voice rises to say something a little like “hey let’s think about this doesn’t mean that person’s voice needs to be silenced. “
We all have different perspectives and some people quieter and some a little louder but everyone brings color to the dialogue.
If one doesn’t say anything they aren’t conceding that the other is right but sometimes it’s just that the person isn’t ready to understand our point of view and may not until they have the same experience and think and learn from it.
No matter what silence is golden sometimes when caught up in a group discussion where our ego is the one leading the way.
Thank you.
Letting this one go. No idea how it connects to what is said before. I guess its broadening the subject.
@lolamayi12345. Agreed, time allows chemistry to build and/or fade. In some cases people thankfully reveal their true selves and we’re able to let things fade away. In other cases it forms a stronger bond and they’re 🪝’d.
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