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So, I don’t have many friends to chat with about this stuff so I’m going to be posting in the forums whenever an anr question pops into my head.
What is your favorite/most comfy position to be suckled. Clearly everyone is different but what position have you found the most comfort and success for a session?
Also? How do you like your breasts to be handled/suckled? Is there a certain way to pull on the nipple that helps inducing, or is there a proper way to latch on? I’ve always imagined sessions mostly being done in sort of an embrace and would be akin to suckling on nipples as I would during sex, although I don’t know if it’d be the same strategy, if you will. What are your thoughts on this?
Definitely look up how to latch. And as much information you can to make it easier on your partner. Proper latch is important for a few reasons. 1 if done wrong you can make her breasts very sore. 2 your mouth will get tired easier. 3 can hinder milk production or stop it completely. I tell all guys this research research research. It’s the least you can do. As far as position you will have a figuring out period with your partner. Just have to find what works for you. Communicate and go off of each other. As far as handling thats tough as each women likes firmer or softer pressure. So again talk to each other and see what works for you. Easy way to practice a latch by yourself. Think along the lines of sucking your thumb. You aren’t just sucking the nipples you need to have as much of her areola in your mouth as you can create a seal. Hope this helps.
Thank you for the wonderful information, @budcotten2342! That’s most definitely useful to know beforehand. Have you ever found yourself holding the breast and massage or caress it? I have read that some women can get sore from swelling and pressure. Would using your hands help alleviate any tension for them or would it be best to just suckle.
I’m sure this may be a very personal preference situation, but sometimes a certain method of operation can be applicable in a variety of situations. I’m trying to have a swiss army mouth and hands
Wolfradish has a number of videos on pornhub showing the correct latch. I suggest you watch these first
There are massage techniques yes. And yes women do have issues with swelling as well as engorgement when milk is coming in or if they are full and need to feed or pump. Also clogged ducts which is extremely painful.
@joanne That’s the EXACT thing I try to mimic now. I found their videos a long time ago and have been following ever since. That and another one that escapes me. Xander/Xavier, something like that.
@budcotten2342 Thank you! I should look some of these up.I wolfraddish is good they do have quite the few videos. I’m not really a fan if their stuff but It will definitely help.
I prefer him sitting on the couch and I sit in his lap facing him so that my breasts are right in his face. Pressure and firmness I like changes throughout the day for me so he just starts out gentle taking my ques. I find that him massaging while nursing gets more milk out faster.
Two good books to read for info is the art of lactation and loves sweet embrace. The art of lactation has three different latches in it. They are on amazon written by Jennifer Elisabeth Maiden.
As for proper suckling technique look up the “milkshake” method. Good practice for the tongue.
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